I was blessed to have had plenty of actual during training, and I much preferred flying in actual, unencumbered, than with the stupid hood. Having done actual IMC flight during training was important for developing confidence in flying in real IMC. Perhaps the best way to dispel the lack of confidence flying in IMC is to fly with an instructor until you are comfortable doing so. Many days, it is possible to seek out benign IFR by flying in and not between layers. The flying part is actually the easiest part. When in actual IMC, weather and fuel decision making may take on heightened significance since there is a reason there is IMC about.