Got my certificate just about three months ago, but a recent two fatality crash at a nearby airport I fly into regularly has unnerved me, and my wife, who had never before expressed concern about the safety of flying (we have three teenage kids...they don't think so all the time, but they still need me), wondered aloud whether it's worth pursuing a hobby that can be so unforgiving.
I know that after many accidents it's possible to identify mistakes on the part of the pilot that led to the problem, but I have this nagging feeling that many of the guys who have perished also used to read about accidents, shaking their heads, and asking "how could he have done that". And they then went out and did it too.
So I haven't flown in a while, and while a part of me feels like I'm doing the "right thing" for my family, I'm missing it already. And I'm wondering what I can do to make flying as safe as possible. I recognize the benefits of training (I was never especially satisfied with my instruction, and there aren't many choices at the field where I live), and personal minimums (I know that flying on super-VFR weather only would help, as would not taking on big x-country trips, etc.). And I'm also trying to understand if there's another layer of safety that can be added in based on the plane I fly...both type and recency (a new Volvo is safer than a 20 year old dodge!).
I know that there's a lot of less than rational thinking that is going into this. I'd be remiss if I didn't mention that my Dad flew GA safely for 40+ years. I "get" flying. I just have to figure out whether I can find a way to do it that allows me to feel the level of comfort I need for myself, and for my family.