Not to stir a pot, but those are two mantras (along with "any landing you can walk away from is a good one") that make me crazy. It's the silliest thing I've ever heard in aviation.
When pilots say things like that it sounds like a crutch for pilot error. mechanical failures aside, ground loops, and gear ups are pilot error. We make it sound like it's GOING to happen eventually, like it's statistically unavoidable. I've towed banners with a 450 Stearman, towed gliders with anything that had a tow hook, bush flying, warbirds L-4 to T-6 and P-51, and ag flying with airplanes at max gross weight with downwind take offs and landings.
This isn't to say I haven't come close to bending a taildragger, far from it. But every time I came close it was because I used poor technique or made a bad decision on how much tailwind, or crosswind I could handle. I've never had a rogue gust of wind just suddenly appear out of a calm day on roll out that caught me off guard and sent me off the side of the runway. I knew what I was getting into and neglected to make the correct control inputs. Thats just situational awareness and solid airmanship.
Comments like this are the reason I have to spend at least a couple flying hours with a perspecctive tailwheel pilot convincing them that the taildragger isn't a beast destined for a mishap and their just along for the ride until it happens. Rather, flying tailwheel airplanes (of any type) aren't any more difficult to fly than a tricycle gear airplane. Its simply a different set of skills to be learned.
In the era when most all aircraft were "conventional", did we just accept a higher accident rate than we do now because we flew tailwheel airplanes? No, of course not. (high tempo military training aside) Wrecking a plane was just as rare and frowned upon as it is now. So why are we making excuses for it?
Lastly, the skills you learn from the back seat of an A-65 powered J-3 will transfer to any larger taildragger you fly. Ive had guys go from a couple hundred hours in a Cub and head straight for a Stearman and T-6 with no issues. You keep a Cub straight just like you do a T-6. In some cases a Cub will make you work harder, just not faster.
Mike-