As far as the stigma is concerned. I met my wife on a very small dating sight that was set up for people who attended the college we went to. Oddly one of the dates I went on, I did not recognize the woman in her pictures nor her I. We set up a date at a public meeting site. Turned out that she was a friend of one of my exs and we had been on a joint date the high school to prom 3 years earlier.. This meeting was about 10 years ago now.
Good luck though!
A form letter for rejection!
just kidding
Dear ________,
I enjoyed our (Chat, Date, Walk, Other) on __________. However, at this time I feel as if would be better if we went separate ways. I wish you the best of luck in your search.
Best,
__________