"...old folks waiting to die." Whoa, I may have made a mistake in moving here.
But after living in 12 cities spread across 5 states I can say that the people that I've met in Palm Springs, the waiters/waitresses, grocery store clerks, bankers, the gardeners, telephone repairmen, pool guys, i.e., everybody that you come in contact with on a day to day basis, are among the friendliest people I have ever met. And its only a couple of hours by car to downtown LA if you need that fix. Couple that with condo prices that are less than 50% of what we looked at in San Diego, hangar prices that are reasonable (yes, there are hangars available at PSP for GA airplanes with no waiting list) an active group of GA pilots, an airport with great service to many places when you need to go commercial, no traffic congestion on the streets...... and I think there are enough pluses to offset the heat in the summer.
On the other hand last June it was a 115 degrees at noon (on its way to 124 for the day) when I landed here in my single place Pitts with no air vents. Everything has pluses and minuses.