Wow... all this talk about death is depressing and I deal with it every day. Not only am I a combat Soldier, I run the Military Funeral Honors program for my state. I have participated in 4000 funerals as a team leader and now manage the program that I volunteered for 10 years ago. I haven't taken part in a funeral as a team member for nearly 6 years so my funeral count takes on a little different meaning.... Why do I tell you this? simple. I have worked with a gentleman for nearly a decade that fought in WWII,Korea and Vietnam while in the Air force. He served with the Canadians before the US got in to WWII and flew Spitfire and Lancaster bombers before being drafted. By the time he retired in the mid 1970s he had flow every aircraft in the US inventory from something like 1942 until 1973 or so. This man still gave his free time to helping serve young Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen and Marines that needed assistance returning from combat as well as participating 2 times a month in the volunteer Honor Guard at the National Cemetery. He also flew when he could and loved to talk aviation with anyone that would listen. He was and still lives for every second. In contrast, I have 2 Soldiers that currently work for me that appear to have already died, their bodies just don't know it yet. I want to be like the old timer and my family has shown me that it is likely that I will be more like him. If I can't be living and not simply existing, I don't know if I would want to.
Hell, I'm 41 and my wife is 32 but I sometimes think I need to start looking for a good funeral director for her too......
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