Thanks for sharing. More information will help others her give more specific advice.
I read your response to my wife. Her first response (having flown for the airlines before and after 9/11) wasn't so much about you wearing a headscarf as she recollected how often someone would chew her out for not wearing her cap/hat. So maybe someone her can comment on any of your religious apparel requirements vs the industry uniform standards.
I think you need to understand that your animal science degree (Marine Biology?) is worth more than being a receptionist. You know chemistry and math and biology which should all be worth better paying jobs than being a receptionist. If you need a starting job, sure be a receptionist. Be the receptionist that is always applying for research/mfg/lab jobs or likewise. Your goal is to make as much money as possible while having the most predictable schedule possible to work up your flight hours. Think about it this way for a minute or two:
Scenario 1: You get a receptionist job and basically settle for it. You try flying and maybe find out its not for you. Now all you have on your resume is animal science degree and post college resume of a receptionist. Probably not the best choice.
Scenario 2: You get a job at a big company working in a lab where they want 4yr degrees. Your salary is higher. You are using that degree. Over weekends and weeknights you get your PPL. Now you know you love flying
Eventually you move all the way up to being that turbine jet type rated corporate pilot!!!! Life is good. Then you want a family or there is recession. You go back to that 4yr degree lab job until you can fly again. I really believe you need to be thinking like that when considering a aviation career. Many say it will be feast for years and years. My wife believes something will come along and throw a wrench in it as its just been seemingly too good for quite a while now. She also kidded with me the other night. Everyone she knows that is still flying has a second job they do.