I have two of my three on ADHD meds.
A little background on Dad.
I was a lousy student from day one. Every report card going back to kindergarten comments section was something to the effect of “Very bright when he applies himself, consistently late assignments and not paying attention”. In high school I really hated school due to constant punishment at home due to bad grades, teachers letting me know I would not amount to much, and the incredible boredom of being there. I ended up graduating with a D- average. Next I joined the service and as I went through tech school I noticed the pace was a lot faster and the style the information was delivered was really easy for me to grasp. I soaked it up and was top of my class, earned a few achievement medal’s, perfect evaluations, Sailor of the Year, yada yada…..After getting out I started my own business, became a pilot.
Bottom line is that when I could do things at my speed everything started clicking and my non-diagnosed disability is who I am today. Had I been diagnosed I’m sure my life would be very different.
Kids:
Two of my kids are diagnosed with ADHD and the meds clearly calm them to do well in school (High Honor role), we eat well, discipline them, and do everything we can to help them succeed.
I struggle daily with the correct answer as to what we should do about all the kids with ADHD but from my experience it has largely gone undiagnosed in previous generations. It is a fact that most undiagnosed kids end up doing poorly in school and a very high % end up using drugs or other means of dealing with it.
Back in the good old days of parents whooping kids butts and failing kids out of school you didn’t have a society with such a focus on a college degree if you want any success in life. There were a lot more paths to success in society, they still exist today but it is a harder road and most parents would like to see them do well in the framework that the schools have laid out.
My opinion is that the school system is broken and if your brain doesn’t work at the speed or capacity they dictate you need to medicate (Institutionalize)kids to survive in that environment.
It is never tolerated as a crutch or excuse for lousy behavior, bad grades, or impulsivity in our house. They are constantly reminded that they have to function in society as it is.
Oh! I see a rabbit….Gota go!