I haven't had a friend go down yet either... Operative word, "yet." I feel like it's getting ever closer. First, there was the 182 I always saw on the ramp, I found out its owner had bought a Cirrus and crashed it - 3 fatal, VFR-into-IMC CFIT. Then, there was the plane in my logbook that took a bath in Lake Michigan and the pilot survived the ditching in fine shape but died of hypothermia.
Then, it was PoA member Vic Steelhammer (Trombair), who I'd never met in person, and then John Lancaster (FlingWing206). Then, there was the local EMS chopper that went down shortly after departure from LSE - I had met the pilot once, and he was married to a woman that used to be our neighbor across the street.
Y'all be careful, I don't like where this is going...