Hey all. New girl here. I got my PPL on 6/6/12, bought a 182RG and flew that like 60 hours from June to the end of August. I needed 20 hours of dual and 50 total in the airplane before I could carry passengers. So I got a local CFII to start to dabble instrument stuff with me, I loved it. So now that I'm back at home base in KCHD I am starting formal training at the same 141 school (although going 61 this time) I got my PPL at, and with my same CFI. Yesterday was lesson #1 which was scheduled to be a ground+flight. Ground went great, flight we made it to the runway and I aborted takeoff due to a company aircraft being involved in a midair and hearing it all on the radio. I was shaking so bad there was no way I could have flown, and frankly I think my CFII wanted to get back to the office. So here I am, about to embark on this journey in another hour. I'm nervous, more than I thought I would be. I've shot probably 20 approaches, have a few hours in actual and maybe 9 or 10 total under the hood. Any advice? I'm hoping to be done in 2 months flying 3-4 times per week. The midair startled me, so that's something else that is weighing on my mind. I trust my CFII 110%, but this happened to a CFII who has trip the experience of mine, and mine is a CFI because he likes it, not because he wants to go to the airlines. Any insight is greatly appreciated.