How did the move/transition go? Are you there for a flying job? I am jumping in late or I would have recommended craigslist for places to live. Lots of times you can get a full private room in a home with a pool from $400-500 per month all utilities if you are single or flight crew.
Here are some favorite places to eat:
Thai smile in Palm Springs and Palm Desert fast food price for lunch/D $$
Marios Italian in every town in Coachella Valley not fancy not expensive
Elephant bar is sort of upscale TGIFidays
Tony Roma's in PD
Upper Crust Pizza in Rancho Mirage fast food price
City Wok Chinese fair price
El Pollo Loco good healthy grilled chicken and salsa fast food price
Subking fast and cheap
Beer Hunter PD fair price sport bar
Every Thursday night has a village street fair in Palm Springs. Free but nice to attend or take your family visitors to.
Date festival in Indio is like a county fair also fun.
Greek Festival is 1 weekend by the orth church in PD worth doing
TRM has a fly in every year, nice to go to.
If you have a plane you can put it on tie down at TRM as the winds you heard about are mostly up by I10 not so much down south at TRM.
Advice search for a fair mechanic before you need one, most are very expensive. If you buy a home find a handyman. If you don't have a low water flush toilet you might put a 2 ltr bottle of water in the water closet to help with that, change shower heads to reduce flow, same with sinks, was clothes on low water or get a front loader...
You already have a place to live I assume but I would say covered parking is important if living in apartments as is pool/jacuzzi/work out center in clubhouse.
Palm Springs and even more so Cathedral City are Gay friendly if that sort of thing appeals to you, even PD is very accepting. You get used to it otherwise. When you go with your buds to a movie or dinner you are often considered or assumed a couple..its sort of funny.