I don't want to poison waters that have already been sailed in but my story is similar to many others. I bought in a residential airpark. My lot is one of the most valuable in the airpark. I paid a premium for it, due to the location. The biggest jackass in the whole place lives across the street and down one lot.
How big a jackass you say? He sued the whole development(yes, the one he was a member of). It took 3 years and $140k to have it defended and dismissed. It never saw the light of day in a courtroom.
The pres of the BOD has the lot behind mine(facing the view of the airpark). When I started the process of getting a house through the architectural comm it took me 9 tries. In each failed attempt, I found out the dissenting votes were from the pres(me neighbor) and two other BODs that owed their position to him. He didn't like where the house was on the land, he didn't like how high it was, he didn't like the siding/brickwork, etc, etc. All of it was according to the CCRs in place at the time of submittal. The rules changed after each submittal. It cost me $640 to get them approved.
Next, I got the bad news about the septic system. When my neighbor the prez got his approved it was about a 30 min effort. I started and much to my surprise, the rules were amended just before I started the testing. It was going to take me a few thou to get the permit.
I through in the towel. But first, I took to the legal road to sue my own prez(yes the one I am a member of). After thousands in legal fees, it did see the light of a court house. I got plenty of support from other members of the BOD, and the rules committee. I won, and was awarded a modest judgment, and the prez was ordered to recuse on the building comm and the septic changes.
I will never ever build were anyone has any kind of control over what I do and how I do it(counties notwithstanding). If you cede control to some petty dictator, shame on him and shame on you. I don't know why it turns out that way, but it often does. The prez was just ousted from the BOD, and he's several thousand dollars poorer for his effort, but I'm not building there so maybe all-in-all he 'won'. Me? Well we bought a nice lakefront home(no CCRs, no HOA), and are looking into an amphib. I built a boat ramp with lots of lateral space, should I need it for wing clearance, and the world is once again spinning in greased grooves.