Karen's Dad in hospital again... Sigh.

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Her folks came to Denver for vacation. Her mom does all the driving these days. Up from AZ where they retired.

If y'all recall, after my dad passed away in Feb, we made a trip down to AZ on the human speed tubing jet machine to see her folks. They're a lot older than my parents and his health has been poor for years. He's a diabetic and stubborn about taking care of himself, or just confused about how much work it really is.

Anyway, we got there the day he'd been taken to the ER and admitted after having an attack of inability to make much of a coherent sentence (not fun for a retired lawyer I assume), and not able to move himself. Blood sugar was high but not into the rediculous range and they found he had a blood infection of a nasty strain of strep, of all things. They looked at his heart valves and found nothing. Decided the infection was introduced through a diabetic wound on his foot, treated it and out after we had to come home.

Today, same thing. Incoherent. Couldn't work motor skills. Off to the hospital.

They're running a bejillion more tests and suspected a stroke today but nothing conclusive yet. MRI ordered at 12:45, wasn't taken to do it until 17:15. I hope that means they decided it wasn't stroke, because that's too damn long to wait for an MRI in that scenario.

Karen is at the hospital awaiting any news on prognosis. He was more lucid after the usual treatments and ticked off again that family was sitting in a hospital with him instead of "out doing something". Similar sentiments last time until the infection was under control. His tempermeht seemed "agitated" for a few days last time also.

It has been a really strange year. I won't even go into the personal work or other stuff that's been a crazier roller coaster ride than any amusement park could dream up.

Examples are job going nuts, but surprise job offers for Karen and other good things for me, and trying to sell the old house only to find the sewer line (and therefore the front yard) needs to be torn out and replaced. Thankfully the young couple still wants the house, and we're still under contract, and my realtor absolutely positively 100% kicks ass. He's been handling the entire process of finding reasonable contractors which is a Godsend for me. I always find the shady ones who rip people off and change company names like underwear.

So... I know others have bigger crosses to bear and it's all just life, but there's our news from our corner of the planet. Thanks for reading.

(If anyone thinks the aviation podcast is coming back anytime soon, it'll never happen with all this stuff going on. Sigh. I just pay the hosting bill and think... maybe... someday...)
 
Nate,

I Hope things improve.

I don't know you but I'm here for you buddy.

All the best,
 
Life does get in the way at times. The best you can do is take it one day at a time. Hang in there Nate.
 
That's hard. Hang in there for your wife. You two have had a rough year.
 
We went thru a similar set f symptoms with a loved one recently, only to discover the Dr had given him prescriptions that caused everything.
It seems if the Rx conflict enough, the result seems like a very bad, read that as likely fatal, stroke.
At least ask...
 
Ouch. You've had a rough go of it this year. Hoping that all ends up well and that things improve markedly!
 
No news as of bedtime and no prognosis. I was incorrect earlier, he was still not making coherent sentences by evening time.

Apparently you can tell he knows what he wants to say but can't say it in any way that makes sense. Poor guy. They seemed not to have really come to any conclusion yet. They're supposedly going to have results from a bejillion tests this morning.

I had to work a bit at 22:00 and then got called at 04:00 to restart the ten year old internal statistics software that needs to be ****-canned and replaced. (Rolls eyes.)

All I feel like doing is taking about a month off and a vacation at this point. :)

Guess I'll have to settle for an airplane flight and seeing Disney's Planes this weekend.

(Hey, that reminds me. Colorado folk, I am not going with Colorado Pilot's Assn to the movie. Mom called and wanted to take her silly aviator son to see it, so real family barely wins over aviation family... Heh... Was cool that mom thought about her aviation addicted son and daughter-in-law. She doesn't do boats at all, and puts up with airplanes. Depending on what happens with Karen's dad, we may have to reschedule to another weekend anyway...)

Boss' boss and a good log time friend has to put his 16 year old pup down today, too. Ugh. Not really directly affecting me, but I'm bummed for him. That's how this crazy year or two started for us. Putting down our 16 year old dog.

(Well actually the 21 year old cat died while I was doing Instrument training in LNK with Jesse a couple Decembers ago. That was probably the real start of the craziest couple of years, ever, for us.)

Today... I get to chat with the realtor about putting another $9K or so into the city house to finish closing out the sale... Heh. Nothing ever comes easy in this house.

But it's still awesome to be here, Free to do as we please, and make our own way! "Lord willing and the creek don't rise."

Oh and don't believe that Internet BS about that phrase being a reference to the Creek Indians... It just ain't true.

There's your "NateSnopes" for the day. LOL!

http://www.worldwidewords.org/qa/qa-god1.htm

And life goes on... The new one and a half year old GSP is snoring next to me.

He's a bit of a "Velcro dog". He has to be in the same room as one of us, or he gets whiny and distressed. He's a hilarious character and quite different than the Husky girl was. And I'm not sure, but I think he could out-run the Husky in shorter distances, pretty easily. Which is saying a lot.

75 lbs of kisses too. He has a tendency to lick. I have had a lot of doggie baths since January. LOL.

Right now he's passed back out, which is what I should have done after restarting that stupid software. :)
 
Thoughts with you and Karen, Nate. It's really, really tough when parents have disorientation or dementia. I assume you saw the news stories this week that find correlation between blood sugar (diabetes) and dementia/Alzheimers. I am also convinced that coronary disease also impacts it.

Lost my dad a few years ago to complications related to dementia. It is not easy.

Best of luck.
 
Best wishes for a speedy recovery. Diabetes is a tough one, doubly so on stubborn old dudes. Just ask me how I know.

10 year old software sucks, regardless of purpose. Every house I have owned, Joe Plumber said I needed the front sewer line replaced. A little root killer cost a lot less.

Hang in there. Life would be boring without some challenges to remind you how beautiful the world really is.
 
Been dealing with similar issues as well. The upside is at least you needn't deal with them remotely. Good luck.
 
Nate, no doubt life throws us some curve balls. In your case I believe some change-ups have been added in the mix.

My thoughts are with you and Karen and the family. :yes:
 
No news as of bedtime and no prognosis. I was incorrect earlier, he was still not making coherent sentences by evening time.

Apparently you can tell he knows what he wants to say but can't say it in any way that makes sense. Poor guy. They seemed not to have really come to any conclusion yet. They're supposedly going to have results from a bejillion tests this morning.

I had to work a bit at 22:00 and then got called at 04:00 to restart the ten year old internal statistics software that needs to be ****-canned and replaced. (Rolls eyes.)

All I feel like doing is taking about a month off and a vacation at this point. :)

Guess I'll have to settle for an airplane flight and seeing Disney's Planes this weekend.

(Hey, that reminds me. Colorado folk, I am not going with Colorado Pilot's Assn to the movie. Mom called and wanted to take her silly aviator son to see it, so real family barely wins over aviation family... Heh... Was cool that mom thought about her aviation addicted son and daughter-in-law. She doesn't do boats at all, and puts up with airplanes. Depending on what happens with Karen's dad, we may have to reschedule to another weekend anyway...)

Boss' boss and a good log time friend has to put his 16 year old pup down today, too. Ugh. Not really directly affecting me, but I'm bummed for him. That's how this crazy year or two started for us. Putting down our 16 year old dog.

(Well actually the 21 year old cat died while I was doing Instrument training in LNK with Jesse a couple Decembers ago. That was probably the real start of the craziest couple of years, ever, for us.)

Today... I get to chat with the realtor about putting another $9K or so into the city house to finish closing out the sale... Heh. Nothing ever comes easy in this house.

But it's still awesome to be here, Free to do as we please, and make our own way! "Lord willing and the creek don't rise."

Oh and don't believe that Internet BS about that phrase being a reference to the Creek Indians... It just ain't true.

There's your "NateSnopes" for the day. LOL!

http://www.worldwidewords.org/qa/qa-god1.htm

And life goes on... The new one and a half year old GSP is snoring next to me.

He's a bit of a "Velcro dog". He has to be in the same room as one of us, or he gets whiny and distressed. He's a hilarious character and quite different than the Husky girl was. And I'm not sure, but I think he could out-run the Husky in shorter distances, pretty easily. Which is saying a lot.

75 lbs of kisses too. He has a tendency to lick. I have had a lot of doggie baths since January. LOL.

Right now he's passed back out, which is what I should have done after restarting that stupid software. :)
Best wishes for you and your family. Even when all you can do is be there, being there is the best thing for all.
 
I don't know you but your story is very familiar to me. We went through this with my mother in law.

I have a great empathy for you. When my wife would sit by her mothers bedside and cry, I would just hold her hand and keep silent, I had no idea what to say.
She later told me how much that meant. It will help you connect too?

A corner to turn for our life is just ahead!
Lynn
 
They confirmed it was a "mild" stroke.

(I know what they mean by "mild", but geeze... bleeding in your brain ain't ever really "mild", if you think about it.)

So that's two dad's with strokes in the same year. I joked with Karen that if any more happen I may develop a Complex. LOL. Not really, but it's interesting statistically considering they were almost 20 years apart in their ages and the fatal stroke was in the younger guy.

Now to see if rehab can help the aphasia. He was a well-spoken and well-read attorney most of his life, so I can imagine he's incredibly frustrated at words coming out wrong.

One of the common topics of conversation in her family is, "What are we going to do with all of his books when he passes away?" He's always maintained an enormous library.
 
One of the common topics of conversation in her family is, "What are we going to do with all of his books when he passes away?" He's always maintained an enormous library.

It doesn't hurt to have an appraiser qualified in books to come review and see if any are valuable.

The not so valuable but still of interest collection could go to a university library that would create a "named collection" in his honor.
 
It doesn't hurt to have an appraiser qualified in books to come review and see if any are valuable.

The not so valuable but still of interest collection could go to a university library that would create a "named collection" in his honor.

I figure they won't do that until he's gone. Too awkward to say, "Dad, can we get your books appraised now in case you keel over?" ;)
 
I figure they won't do that until he's gone. Too awkward to say, "Dad, can we get your books appraised now in case you keel over?" ;)

I feel your pain. I deal with estate stuff nearly everyday in the real estate world.

Hang in their. :yes:
 
Hang in there, I sincerely hope things get better for you and your wife. Sounds like it has been a very rough year. I can empathize.
 
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