Advice? I did it at 39 (which I still am!). Here is some advice:
1) Don't put time limits on yourself. It takes as long as it takes. Have fun learning.
2) Don't compare yourself to the 19 year old 8 hour solos. You have superior judgement anyway!
3) Find a cranky old guy to teach you if possible
4) Fly at least twice a week while training. Might have to schedule 3+ times per week if the weather gets unpredictable or if there are aircraft maintenance issues. If you fly less often, your ticket will cost more.
5) If you can, try to take time off / flex work schedule when the weather looks like it might be good. Be prepared to cancel a lot for weather.
6) There is no six.
7) Stick with the same type of aircraft you are training in until your test. The next bigger aircraft might seem like fun, but it might throw you off for your practical.
8) Welcome to the club!