What "profession" only pays $35K a year out of school? That's like sixteen bucks an hour. You can get that working at McDougles in San Fran...
A more realistic place is where I started with my family -
First professional level job, making $50,000. Fiance in a non-professional job, making $30,000 or so. That's a family income of $80k.
At that point, we opted to rent because buying was so inaccessible. Thankfully, my career took off, and we got to a point where my wife makes $0, and I make enough to be comfortable for the both of us. After dumping tons of money into someone else's mortgage, we finally bought a home. But, the home we bought in North Carolina was only $130k, mostly because the down payment requirement was insane - to put 20% down, I'd have to come up with $26,000, even with that inexpensive of a home.
But we found the one we wanted - had a big ol' yard, and tiny bedrooms. Loved that home. After having kids, we outgrew it, but stayed until we moved.
Anyway - tell me, for a home that inexpensive - $130,000. How is a new family supposed to come up with 20% down? Using FHA and coming up with 3-4% ($3,900 - $5,200) is a lot more doable.
So much so, that even with a much larger income, that's what we chose to do. PMI requirements were only until you got 20% equity, or 5 years, whichever was sooner. No brainer.
Last house we bought, we bought for $250k or so. We did the same thing. Even at a pretty good income, dumping $50,000 in cash is insane. We put 3% down instead. Luckily, we got in before FHA changed the PMI requirements, so same deal as before. But now, with the requirement to keep PMI for the life of the loan or upon re-financing, I think FHA is ripping people off.
But what choice do young couples have?