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Some great advice already given above.......
OP, I definitely agree that you should get the best instrument that you can afford. That said, these days, even relatively inexpensive instruments can be really good.
Amp wise, if you're just starting out, a small combo is probably your best bang for buck. An amp modeler like a Line 6 Pod etc. is also a good investment and can be used for late night practice with headphones and are loaded with more amp, pedal and cab combinations than you'll ever use. Something like a Line 6 Spider or Vox VT series are also decent little setups. I like the Vox better than the L6 in these size amps. My kid has a VT20 and it KILLS though a 2-12 or 4-12 cab..... I briefly considered using it for gigs instead of my expensive tube amps.
Buy used, and you'll get your money back if you don't find you don't like it. I've got 10+ guitars and at least as many amps. I got most of them used over the years. I am mainly a Gibson kinda guy (2 SGs and 2 LPs), but have a Tele, Strat and various other flavors.
Amp wise, I prefer British style amps, mainly Hiwatt and Marshall. I've built a couple of Hiwatt and Marshall clones too.
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FWIW, I play in a Jurassic Rock cover band. We play sporadically at various dive bars around SWFL. My gig rig is typically my SG Std or '54 reissue gold top into a Marshall JVM 410H into a 2-12 with Scumback M75s or a JVM 410C by itself, depending on the size of the stage. I keep the board simple and use a tuner, wah, compressor, chorus and delay, although we started doing some songs with a Rocktron talkbox recently.