I made a tiny wrench for that. Dunno if I can find it. Being retired, stuff like that settles to the bottom of my toolbox drawers. It was just a piece of 1/8" x 3/4" flat bar, maybe two inches long, with a notch cut into one side near one end. Leave maybe 1/8" between the end of the notch and the end of the bar, enough to be stout but enough to avoid ANY contact with the center electrode or ceramic. Kind of like a tiny pipe wrench. The width of the notch should be hardly any more than the thickness of the electrode, and deep enough to accommodate width of the electrode. Easy to bend the electrode out a tiny bit.
The plug makers will tell you not to try to widen that gap. They're afraid you'll put side force on the center electrode and crack the ceramic insulator, which will result in spark shorting to ground and possibly pieces of that terribly hard ceramic breaking off and scoring the cylinder and piston very deeply.