That makes sense but I guess the word "Mentor" means different things to different people. (IMO) Mentor and Drinking buddies are totally two different things. For me a Mentor is a CFI that will work with you all the way until your commercial, teach you how to be a safe pilot and schedule recurring training with you to keep you sharp. All too often CFI's have one foot out of the door because they are building hours. That is one of the things I would change about GA. Give the flight instructors a decent wage.
Ahh I see. You want someone who's not a time builder. I get that. Florida is a hot bed of schools where there's lots of that, I suppose.
It takes some digging but there's always older instructors around who aren't headed off to the first non-instructing job they qualify for. You just have to ask around.
A good person to ask is usually a local DPE. They know who isn't going anywhere.
Another good question to ask a local DPE is, "I know you can't recommend instructors or take sides, but I would really like to know a few names of instructors who send you well trained and prepared applicants consistently. I can take it from there, but sometimes they're hard to find."
Not only will you get some names but most DPEs are going to toss you names of people they'll bet you could get along with. They're usually pretty good judges of who not to mix in a cockpit. Ha. They've seen a lot of people interact over theirs years.
Not kidding. You kinda have to own it. You're the person doing the hiring, so to speak.
A little known here story about when I was thinking about calling up
@jesse to do the instrument in Nebraska... Before I ever sent him a note, I sent private messages to a few levelheaded pilots here (yeah, right!) asking if I could call them with a training question, and then when I called asking how well they knew Jesse.
They all gave great reviews. More than one had flown with Jesse. That was huge in me choosing to then ask him if he had time that December to do some training.
I won't embarrass anyone by mentioning who I called or anything. But I did.
Interestingly once you find one of that "been teaching around here for 20+ years" crowd, you'll find the rest of them. Birds of a feather and all that...
Just keep in mind they have that one guy they know shouldn't be... Haha. If you see the graybeards rolling their eyes whenever you mention a certain name or going totally blank but not saying they don't know the name you just said, it's a hint.
They're not going to badmouth another instructor, but there's signs... Subtle ones. Took me a while to notice those, but they're there. Even silence speaks pretty loudly.