#5. I wish CFI's were more mentors than pilots that were just passing through trying to obtain hours.
This one is tough. As an "older" soon to be CFI candidate I've thought about this one quite a bit. I certainly want to be a mentor and pass along the joy of aviation as well as be an instructor, but that's a fine line. It's hard to be hired by someone to teach and evaluate them and also be their "bestest buddy". The role has to change as needed.
The pilots who are supposed to be mentors are the OTHER pilots at the airport, not the guy or gal you hire to evaluate you and sometimes have to kick your ass into gear when you've developed a deadly habit or two.
But folks are busy, most pilots who can make enough money to do it for fun are very hard workers at their jobs and have lots of stuff going on in their lives. They're not the old gang that had decent but menial jobs and hung around the airport reading Trade-A-Plane on a Saturday.
Man I'd love to do more of that and probably will a LITTLE but the reality is, to even chase the desire to give a little back to this amazing group of people and machinery that's been one of the greatest joys of my life, I'll be keeping my day job for quite a while.
Maybe it can morph into being less hours and replace some of those with instructing, but full time instructing looks like a pretty good way to go really really broke unless you're also producing course material and selling it, or have a niche type or special TAA knowledge and specialize heavily.
So 70-90 hour weeks look like what the future likely holds as a full time worker with an instructing fetish. Or more. Or less. But it won't be hanging out at the airport sitting in the FBO on the couch shooting the breeze much, like the old days, I don't think. Nor will probably many students I might be lucky enough to pick up probably be doing that much.
But in the end, I'm on the clock when I arrive, and I'm doing a job. If we get along and like each other, that's obviously great and I'll happily talk aviation as long as we both have time to talk after the lesson or checkup or whatever is done, but with all the Type A's in aviation, I'd quickly get branded as "wasting my time" by some pilots who need to get to the airport, get their stuff done, and get back to their hectic lives.
And there's that line of "Right now I'm not your friend, I have to tell you that you're doing some things that will get you hurt and I'd prefer to see you around for a long time". Any instructor is going to run into that from time to time.
It's not a small amount of money or time that I'm investing to be able to do this. I'd rather do it well and be known as a good teacher than everyone's best friend on the airport.
We have an instructor around here who's like that. He's everyone's friend. He's purely awful at paperwork and regs. He dismisses student queries about how to get better at regs and stuff they need memorized with phrases like "oh you don't need to know all that as long as you can fly", and he's constantly picking up students because he's always the salesman telling them how great it all is. Which is nice. But he has a lot of students leave him to more organized instructors and he's had at least one 709 ride amongst other disciplinary action by an employer that I can't get into here, for not following the organizations rules. Got the Ray Bans and the leather jacket, so he must know what he's doing, right?
When I heard him on the radio the other day I said to my current CFI, "that's so and so. Haven't heard him in a while. I don't trust him at all." Current CFI wisely said back (because aviation is a very small world), "I've heard stories."
No instructors can really afford to be "that guy", but every area has one. Gotta be careful with that stuff. You can't be everybody's best buddy, and that may bother *some* Millenials and folks who want the "besties" experience or who may be shocked that they just hired someone to critique them, if they're not used to being critiqued.
Obviously I'll be your friend in the cockpit if you decide you don't mind that and we'll probably be flying to more shared lunches somewhere than most people ever go to with most of their co-workers and I may even see you more than your own family for a while in your life ... But I'm also paid to do a job and not waste the students' time or money.
Interesting thoughts to ponder as I work through the requirements to do this stuff.