Wow, great to know the nuances of the DA40. I am intrigued. Alan and I are about the same size, although my wife is tiny. My owner/partner isn't small so the Tiger worries me. What is the cabin width on the DA40? Obviously it can handle me but how about another FAA+ individual? Don't mind doing a coastal trip in two days either, so ultimately the DA40 would work fine as would the 182.
I think the cabin on the DA40 at the shoulder is slightly wider than the 182 - It's got plenty of width. I wouldn't recommend it for someone more than 6'4" - That's how tall I am, and with a couple more inches of leg or any more torso, it wouldn't be nearly as comfortable. So, the 182 does still beat the DA40 in legroom and headroom.
As far as weight, ours takes 495 pounds with full (extended range) fuel. If you had one with standard tanks, add 60 pounds to that. We also do not have the optional gross weight increase mod (yet, anyway) which is a pretty cheap addition if you have the newer-style landing gear and gives you another 110 pounds. (The landing gear can be upgraded as well if necessary, but that's more expensive, so it's probably better to find one that has it already.) So, with the standard tanks and gross weight increase, figure about 670 pounds of payload.
any thing you can do in a 172/182/ you can do faster in a 210.
In the case of burning money, exponentially faster.
Carzy overpriced? I disagree. The problem is that all DA40s were made in this century so you can't get the benefit of 30 years depreciation.
FWIW, in October we bought a 2006 DA40. We have the G1000 cockpit with XM weather datalink, Mode S traffic, autopilot, extended range tanks, premium leather interior, etc... Pretty much all the bells and whistles, just under 700 TTAF and TTE when we bought it for $160,000. For a 5-year-old, sharp-looking, extremely efficient, 140-knot airplane, that's a pretty darn good deal IMO.
A DA40 is similar in cost to an Archer III made in the same year. DA40s have very docile handling characteristics and are easy to land, probably much easier than a 182.
Definitely easier to land than a 182, and with truly delightful flight characteristics all around. They're really fun to fly, I encourage you to try one!
Older DA40s (2002 to 04?) which would be closer to his price range have the old style "ski tube" baggage compartment so golf clubs might be a problem although they might fit if you lay down one or both of the rear seats. It might be a bit cramped for two big guys in the front seats and the steam gauge DA40s have less leg clearance under the panel so tall people might have a problem.
I didn't see a price range? IMO the "sweet spot" for used DA40's right now is in the 2004-2006 range. Those are new enough to have the extra bit of legroom and the glass cockpit, but old enough to be a bargain relative to the 2007 and later "XL" and "XLS" models which have the Garmin autopilot and seem to start at about $220K still.
Those '04-'06 models are also more likely to have the newer "4-way" baggage compartment, the newer landing gear, etc. I think it'd be difficult to find one for less than $160K, but they do pop up regularly in that range.
Actually, after looking for a bit - This one's a pretty darn good fit for the OP, and a good deal at $149.9K:
http://www.controller.com/listingsdetail/detail.aspx?OHID=1193099 It's got the same bells and whistles we have (including the extended baggage compartment), standard tanks, and the gross weight increase already done.