Actually, now that I think about it, I'm pretty sure Max has family in Brooklyn, so he's probably been there.
I was actually talking about farther north. But Brooklyn's okay, except for where the latest wave of yuppies have taken over, mainly down by da bridges to da city. Some other parts, like Park Slope, have been yuppified for decades. It's actually getting hard to find pockets of Olde Brooklyn.
I grew up in Olde Brooklyn, back when it was still gritty and dirty. I also lived in Queens for many years. I've never lived in Manhattan, though. Nor did I want to. Back in the day, those of us who lived in the "outer boroughs" held Manhattan in contempt and disdain. The boroughs had very strong independent identities, although one thing we all agreed on was that we all hated Manhattan.
The reasons for that had a lot to do with city funding priorities that sunk every possible dollar into Manhattan, while ignoring the rest of the city. The "Lindsay Snowstorm" of 1969 kind of changed that, when City Hall came to the realization that the voters in the "outer boroughs" collectively outnumbered the ones in Manhattan.
As for California... meh. Most people I met in California were very nice, but most people I've met anywhere were very nice. People are pretty much people. I do chuckle at Californians' defensiveness of their state, however, and how angry they get when other people don't care for California. It's kind of funny to watch.
If you say to a New Yorker, "I don't like New York," we may suggest some other parts to look at, but more likely we'll just shrug. Saus-eech his own, as we used to say in Brooklyn.
For my part, I prefer the country and always have. The second my psychotic ex and I split up I no longer had anything tying me to the city, I started looking North. I go downstate about two or three times a year now, on average, and that's often enough for me.
-Rich