Good for you, especially since you don't have an autopilot!
I don't like giving up control.
You've already given up control by flying the airplane. The autopilot is just another link between your decisions and the control surfaces of the airplane, just like the yoke and the pedals. The difference is that it is one you can take out of the equation when you wish.
I think A/P has the possibility to make you complacent. And I don't have one in my plane anyway.
I agree that the autopilot has the possibility to make one complacent, though I think "potential" might be a better word. That could, of course, be said about just about any piece of equipment in the plane, from the autopilot and GPS down to the attitude indicator. Yes, we should be able to fly without the attitude indicator; it's just partial panel. No way am I launching without one, though!
There is a set of mandated pieces without which one may not legally fly IFR. I think that
most of us would agree that going into
hard IFR with only those pieces operating would not be something we would choose to do. I think that recognizing the additional demands during an anticipated flight and ensuring that one has appropriate equipment available is a mark of a professional pilot. That's part of coming up with a set of personal minimums.
Note that I reiterate the adjective "hard" to describe the IFR. And no, I do
not mean IMC. While that is certainly included, I would also want to have certain equipment available if I were flying in the immediate vicinity of particularly difficult airspace, such as the immediate environs of O'Hare or around the DC ADIZ. If, on the other hand, I'm flying through a thin layer at 2000' from Peoria to Ames, the risks and thus the requirements may be different.
If anyone says an inop A/P is a no go item for them, I have to question their IR skills, and probably won't climb in a plane with them.
One of the 135 of 121 pilots can correct me, but my understanding is that single-pilot operations under those regs places the autopilot in the category of required equipment. I'm certain that this requirement wasn't added capriciously. I'm sure you weren't thinking of this when you said this, though.
No offense to anyone who is like that, but you don't see Lance Armstrong riding his bike with training wheels do you?
I think there are few on PoA who would claim to be to aviation what Lance Armstrong is to cycling, so I'm not sure that the comparison is valid. If you
are the Lance Armstrong of the aviation world, I suspect that your personal minimums are a little different than those of someone who only got their instrument rating less than a year ago.
What happens if it craps out 1/2 way through your trip?
You fly the airplane, just like you do if the vacuum system goes out, or any other piece of equipment, required or not.