Finally Some Closure

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For as long as I can remember, I've had the same two very strong passions. Even as I child, I knew I wanted both of these to be a permanent part of my life. These two passions are aviation and military service. Logically, my ultimate dream was to be a military pilot.

Those of you who have met me in person have noticed that I've got a "lazy eye". This is due to having a blind spot in my right eye (scarred retina). I see fine with both eyes open (20/20 and better than average field-of-view due to an XT of approx 40 degrees). The blind spot only shows up when I close my "good" eye, and I still have peripheral vision in my bad eye.

Anyways, I found out in high school when I started the packet for the Air Force Academy that there was absolutely no way I'd be able to fly in the military. Naturally I was disappointed, but I decided that I'd be content serving in the military on the ground if I could fly in my civilian life.

At that point I started talking to active duty recruiters. I soon discovered that my chances of getting into the military, even as a foot soldier, were extremely bad. My chances were so bad that recruiters that knew about my eye would ignore my calls. I couldn't even find a recruiter willing to help me attempt a waiver.

This started a cycle that has lasted six years. I'd talk to a recruiter. He'd tell me it'd be a waste of his time. I'd tell him ok, and leave disappointed. After a few months, I'd get the feeling that I haven't done every thing I can do to try to get in. I'd develop an urge to know for sure, to be officially denied. I needed closure. So, I'd find another recruiter, and the cycle would start all over.

As I said, this has gone on for six years. In college, I participated in Army ROTC. I loved it, but even the cadre there didn't have faith in my being able to qualify. So, I quit school, and went to work, trying hard to focus my efforts on becoming a civilian pilot.

Well, the "the cycle" I'm talking about is officially over. It took my six years, but I finally found a recruiter that cared enough about my desire to serve to help me with the waiver process, despite knowing there was practically no chance that I'd get it. I'm extremely grateful for the effort he put forth (he's spent countless hours taking me to MEPS, to eye doctors, etc). He's a truly great guy.

Anyways, the reason I'm telling you folks all of this is because I want y'all to know that starting February 3rd, I won't be online for quite a while, as I'll be in training for the U.S. Army. We pulled off a miracle, and I was granted a waiver. My recruiter, his boss, and all of his colleagues at the recruiting station are absolutely astonished. People have been turned away for much less.

I'm extremely excited. I can't qualify for any of the combat-oriented jobs that I wanted, but I was able to score one of the more interesting non-combat jobs, 25S (Satellite Communication Systems Operator). It's seems to be in high demand, and many soldiers won't qualify (have to be be eligible for a security clearance, and score well on the ASVAB , so it came with a very nice $28,000 signing bonus.

All of this will push my flying back a little. But when I do have the time to fly, I'll be in a much better position to do so. I'll be able to use my bonus for my PPL-H, and the GI Bill will pay for the rest of the ratings at a Part 141 school.

I'll miss lurking around POA while I'm in Basic Training and AIT (another 9 months). It'll be about a year before I'm done with all of my training and head off to my first duty station, so you won't see much of me in 2009, but when I'm done with that, I'll be back... a freshly minted soldier.

To anyone I don't talk to before I ship, good luck in '09!

Fly safe.
 
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Congratulations, and thank you for signing up for the most important job in America.
 
Congratulations. And, thank you (in advance) for serving and protecting our country. BZ!
 
I've never heard of anyone who wanted so very much to serve his country only to be turned away by so many. That, to me, is rather astonishing. It reflects poorly on the recruiters you dealt with previously, but it reflects extremely highly on you and on the recruiter who finally cared enough to help you fulfill your passion.

Congratulations on finally making it in! We'll be here when you're back.

Most of all, thank you for serving our country! :yes:
 
That's great - both your desire and commitment AND your outcome! I hope it's all you want it to be, and more. :)
 
Man, that's a great story, and we are privileged to know you here.
 
Bravo Zulu to you and Thanks for all of your effort I am positive that you will make the best (damn) satellite communications system operator that the Army has every seen.

Be Well and be safe and drop us a line now and then.
 
Congrats!
Please see my PM, I have a friend in a similar situation and he'd like to pick you & your recruiter's brains.
 
Bravo Zulu! I salute your patriotism and your perseverence. The Army is fortunate to have you in their ranks.
 
Bravo Zulu (at least in the Coast Guard) means "Well Done!" Usually at the end of a teletype message from higher command you'd see "BZ".
 
Your life is about to change, forever, and for the better. Make the most of your enlistment. The sense of satisfaction and personal pride you will get for volunteering to serve your country during a time of war is something that will sustain you and set you apart from others forever. You have stood up and stepped forward to be counted, not stay seated and look the other way when clearly, you could have.

I am particularly inspired by your persistance and dedication.

Good luck, and thank you. Stay in touch.
 
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Wow. Thank you all so much for your responses. I really appreciate the encouragement. :) It means a lot to me, coming from you folks.
 
Congratulations! I am impressed with your determination and will to follow this dream as long as you have, and your career will reflect this. I predict you will do well and go far.

Thank you for your service!
 
I am at a loss for words, God Bless, God Speed and Thank you!
 
Congratulations! Never ever let anyone tell you "you can't do that". I joined the USNavy and was told I couldn't qualify as a pilot because of my vision. I served 4 years as a Avionics Technician and flew as a Private Pilot in the Navy Flying Clubs.

When my exit interview came up I went before a LCDR and he made his speech about why I should re-enlist and even offered me a $25,000 re-up bonus. I respectfully passed and he asked me "So what are your plans when you leave?"

I told him I was a Private Pilot and since I had the GI Bill I planned on becoming a professional pilot. He sat back in his chair and laughed, then said "Well, you're in for a life of heartache, because all you will ever get to fly are small airplanes. The Airlines only hire military pilots!"

I thanked him, said I'll take my chances and never looked back.

Anything is possible with determination. Again, keep pushing ahead and follow your dreams.:D



For as long as I can remember, I've had the same two very strong passions. Even as I child, I knew I wanted both of these to be a permanent part of my life. These two passions are aviation and military service. Logically, my ultimate dream was to be a military pilot.

Those of you who have met me in person have noticed that I've got a "lazy eye". This is due to having a blind spot in my right eye (scarred retina). I see fine with both eyes open (20/20 and better than average field-of-view due to an XT of approx 40 degrees). The blind spot only shows up when I close my "good" eye, and I still have peripheral vision in my bad eye.

Anyways, I found out in high school when I started the packet for the Air Force Academy that there was absolutely no way I'd be able to fly in the military. Naturally I was disappointed, but I decided that I'd be content serving in the military on the ground if I could fly in my civilian life.

At that point I started talking to active duty recruiters. I soon discovered that my chances of getting into the military, even as a foot soldier, were extremely bad. My chances were so bad that recruiters that knew about my eye would ignore my calls. I couldn't even find a recruiter willing to help me attempt a waiver.

This started a cycle that has lasted six years. I'd talk to a recruiter. He'd tell me it'd be a waste of his time. I'd tell him ok, and leave disappointed. After a few months, I'd get the feeling that I haven't done every thing I can do to try to get in. I'd develop an urge to know for sure, to be officially denied. I needed closure. So, I'd find another recruiter, and the cycle would start all over.

As I said, this has gone on for six years. In college, I participated in Army ROTC. I loved it, but even the cadre there didn't have faith in my being able to qualify. So, I quit school, and went to work, trying hard to focus my efforts on becoming a civilian pilot.

Well, the "the cycle" I'm talking about is officially over. It took my six years, but I finally found a recruiter that cared enough about my desire to serve to help me with the waiver process, despite knowing there was practically no chance that I'd get it. I'm extremely grateful for the effort he put forth (he's spent countless hours taking me to MEPS, to eye doctors, etc). He's a truly great guy.

Anyways, the reason I'm telling you folks all of this is because I want y'all to know that starting February 3rd, I won't be online for quite a while, as I'll be in training for the U.S. Army. We pulled off a miracle, and I was granted a waiver. My recruiter, his boss, and all of his colleagues at the recruiting station are absolutely astonished. People have been turned away for much less.

I'm extremely excited. I can't qualify for any of the combat-oriented jobs that I wanted, but I was able to score one of the more interesting non-combat jobs, 25S (Satellite Communication Systems Operator). It's seems to be in high demand, and many soldiers won't qualify (have to be be eligible for a security clearance, and score well on the ASVAB , so it came with a very nice $28,000 signing bonus.

All of this will push my flying back a little. But when I do have the time to fly, I'll be in a much better position to do so. I'll be able to use my bonus for my PPL-H, and the GI Bill will pay for the rest of the ratings at a Part 141 school.

I'll miss lurking around POA while I'm in Basic Training and AIT (another 9 months). It'll be about a year before I'm done with all of my training and head off to my first duty station, so you won't see much of me in 2009, but when I'm done with that, I'll be back... a freshly minted soldier.

To anyone I don't talk to before I ship, good luck in '09!

Fly safe.
 
Way to GO! One of my big regrets is not serving. I admire you for sticking with it and working so hard to serve your country.
 
I am impressed by your determination--you will go far with that attitude!! Thank you for your service... I can't wait to hear more of your adventures as you have time to post them!
 
I applaud your patriotism and determination.

I am quite surprised by your story...you are healthy enough to get a third class medical and fly an airplane, but you cannot serve in the military - even in a non-combat role ?

I guess that U.S. army careers are in high demand if they can afford to turn down people like you.

In Israel (where I live) we have soldiers with severe disabilities serving in non fighting positions - some of them in very complex and extremely demanding jobs.
It doesn't make their contribution less important or less appreciated...

Good luck with your new career :)
 
Wow - cheers to you for sticking with it. I'm glad you're finally getting there. Best of luck. We'll all be pulling for you!
 
Thank you for being willing to serve. You are joining my son in the Army. (BTW if AIT is Advanced Infantry Training, it's only an additional 6 weeks. Sattelite Comms takes a good bit more, I'm sure.)

That determination will serve you well.
John
 
I do believe Fort Gordon in Augusta, GA is one of the SatComm schools. Let me know if you get there and I'll come treat you to dinner.

Good luck!
 
A HUGE ********** CONGRATS ********** to you. It is something you will always be proud you did. We'll all be proud of you too.

Thank you for serving,

Dave
 
Congrats! Hope to see you back here when you get time!
 
Congrats Brandon, and good job! I'm glad that you are able to realize your dream, and I'm proud of you for sticking with it. Most of all though, I THANK YOU and everyone else who serves... I know that it's because you guys do what you do that I have the ability to do what I do, and that means a lot to me. Good luck!
 
Congratulations! Thank you for your determination and courage!

You will do very well. Satellite comms is a very big part of things these days, both in the military and civilian worlds. You have chosen a great path!

Don't forget to enjoy it.

--Matt Rogers
 
Anyways, the reason I'm telling you folks all of this is because I want y'all to know that starting February 3rd, I won't be online for quite a while, as I'll be in training for the U.S. Army.

Outstanding. Thanks for your service to our country.

And they do have computers and Internet in the Army. You might
not have a lot of time during basic but after that you should. We'll
expect updates.

I enlisted in the Army in 1969 and I was proud to serve.

Your plan for your VA education money is a good one. I used mine
at a 141 school to get Comm/Instr/Multi/Helicopter CFI-H and CFI ASEL.

RT
US Army 69 - 72
 
Congrats Brandon, thank you for your commitment, you have my respect.
 
Wow folks. Thank you all for your encouraging posts. I really do appreciate it.

I feel like I have so much to do to get ready to leave, and so little time to do it. I ship out next Tuesday, and I worked my last day yesterday, but I'll be spending four days in Nebraska seeing family before I come back to Houston to ship out. I never realized how hard it is to completely break away from the real world. I've got to cancel a lot of things, set up bills to be automatically paid, find somewhere to store my car (or sell it), prioritize all of the stuff I own so I can quickly grab all of the things I need when I finally get a chance to come back to Houston after my training, decide where to stick my investments so that they don't need to be monitored/researched daily (might just pull out of the stock market entirely during my training), etc.

Ahh!

In Israel (where I live) we have soldiers with severe disabilities serving in non fighting positions - some of them in very complex and extremely demanding jobs.
It doesn't make their contribution less important or less appreciated...

Yea. In the United States, every soldier or marine has to be capable of fighting, should the need arise. In non-conventional wars such as those in Iraq and Afghanistan, the need for them to be combat-ready is even more important, as there is no front-line... anyone doing any job can find themselves under attack by the insurgents.

Over here though, there are a LOT of government service jobs that are held by civilians, but directly support the military. So, all-in-all, I don't think it's that different than the way Israel does things. We just have a lot of military jobs designated as civilian government service.

Thanks for the reply!

Thank you for being willing to serve. You are joining my son in the Army. (BTW if AIT is Advanced Infantry Training, it's only an additional 6 weeks. Sattelite Comms takes a good bit more, I'm sure.)

Yea.. Satcom AIT (Advanced Individual Training, the Army's equivalent of "tech school" or "A school") is 39 weeks.

Good luck to your son! Hope he's staying safe out there.

I do believe Fort Gordon in Augusta, GA is one of the SatComm schools. Let me know if you get there and I'll come treat you to dinner.

Yea, I'll be in Fort Jackson, SC for Basic Training and Fort Gordon for AIT. I'd love to meet up some time!

Outstanding. Thanks for your service to our country.

And they do have computers and Internet in the Army. You might
not have a lot of time during basic but after that you should. We'll
expect updates.

I enlisted in the Army in 1969 and I was proud to serve.

Your plan for your VA education money is a good one. I used mine
at a 141 school to get Comm/Instr/Multi/Helicopter CFI-H and CFI ASEL.

RT
US Army 69 - 72

Thank you for your service!

I didn't realize you had helicopter ratings. Do you ever get a chance to use them?
 
My thanks for your persistence in your desire to serve. Not enough people in the younger generation recognize the truth to the saying, "to whom much is given, much is required".

You do. And you persevered in finding the good way to give back to your legacy who purchased our freedoms.

You are signing a check, with the amount open-ended--anywhere from "a few years of my life" to "100% of my life"--all just so I can continue to sit at home and gripe and moan about politics and the economy, and whatnot.

For that I, and all of us here on this board and in our nation owe you...

You ever make it down to Bolivar, MO, lunch is on me.

Jim
 
Thank you for the very nice reply jshawley.

Today's the day. My recruiter should be here within the hour to take me down to MEPS, where I'll ship from.

It's been fun guys/girls. Talk to y'all on the other side.
 
You will not read this until after you have graduated from basic since you are right now most likely just arriving at Ft Jackson. Over the past little while, I have followed yours posts and like others on here, I have found your determination admirable.

Take a moment to recall the obstacles that you overcame while in boot. Close your eyes and remember the endless marching. Remember the pride you felt when you completed the confidence course. Realize that you are no long the person that you were when you left just a short time ago.

My wife returned from her first tour in Iraq last May. I served three tours. We wanted to be the first to welcome you back. We are proud to have you in the uniform. Wear it with pride. Understand that the uniform is not yours. You are simply standing a watch that many have stood before you, and many will stand the watch after you are done. You will pass the uniform on to those who, like you, not only heard the call, but took it upon themselves to raise their right hand and take that oath. Knowing that people like you are answering the call gives me renewed confidence.

Thank you for standing the watch.

Welcome home soldier.

When we meet, the beers on me.
 
Hey Everyone

Just writing a quick note from Fort Gordon, GA. I graduated Basic Training about a month ago and started my classes here last week. I've been busy lately (being new, we have to do a lot of the details), but I should be able to spend a little more time on the 'net as time goes on. (I have a lot of posts to catch up on.) I hope everyone's out there flying!

Thank you all for the support. I really do appreciate it.

Fly safe.




Allen C:

Thank you very much for the reply. I'm honored to put on the uniform and follow behind so many great people that wore it before me.

Thanks to you and your wife for your service.
 

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Hey Everyone

Just writing a quick note from Fort Gordon, GA. I graduated Basic Training about a month ago and started my classes here last week. I've been busy lately (being new, we have to do a lot of the details), but I should be able to spend a little more time on the 'net as time goes on. (I have a lot of posts to catch up on.) I hope everyone's out there flying!

Thank you all for the encouraging posts. I really do appreciate it.

Fly safe.

Hoo-ah!

(Before it became a t-shirt thing...)

:smilewinkgrin:

Captain, IN, US Army (Retired)
 
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