The point was already made you simply didn't get it.
I got it. You gave bad counsel. You advised the reader to expect that the aircraft won't' be salvageable, that there won't' be a good outcome to a forced landing.
The problem today is that students seldom have ever seen an off-field landing, let alone having been given proper expectations of the eventuality or reality of such an event. It should be ingrained early in training, and oft reiterated that it's never a matter of if one will have a power loss, but when.
An engine-out shouldn't become a death-defying, gonna-trash-the-airframe, can't-believe-anybody-could-survive-it event.
It should be one more training evolution. One should keep a constant eye toward forced landing sites such that when the engine quits or develops a partial power state, one can simply say "I'm landing there, the spot I've already considered, and chosen."
There are no guarantees. To start the event with the notion that the aircraft won't' be salvageable and that one is giving it back to the insurance agency smacks of fatalism. I'm concerned about getting down safely and getting stopped, but I want to be able to re-use the airplane when I'm done. It's not a once-in-a-lifetime event. It's just one more. Get down. Get stopped.
There are occasions when one has placed one's self into a position that no wide open highway or field is available; certainly we are all there at some point in our flights, though when flying single engine airplanes one should do one's best to minimize that exposure. On such occasions, one may need to put the fuselage between two tree trunks to let the wings take the impact, rather than the fuselage; there are times when one uses the airplane sacrificially to enhance survivability.
Those occasions are the exception, rather than the rule.
An engine failure does not transfer the airplane to the insurance company, nor does it herald a damaged airplane. One should be fully capable of landing with or without power, and one should be capable of landing the airplane without a prepared, dedicated runway. If not, then one needs to stop flitting around "building time" or taking pictures, and concentrate on basic flying skills which may save one's life.