No doubt this is true, and people like to glance over that, but from my personal experience I've found the inverse to be true. My experience as a self-loathing millennial, ugh, is that my peers with the uber-rich parents kind of became (or are becoming) deadbeats... not finishing their free (mom and dad paid) graduate level education or becoming perpetual students and never really landing a job they're happy with. These folks may cruise through life on family money, but eventually that will run out... people like that don't do their future generations any favors.
On the flip side, people I've known who grew up very modestly, didn't go to Ivy league schools, etc., ended up running their own businesses or applying themselves through education and getting decent jobs.
This repeats every generation. But yeah, I see it in my peers and in yours too.
Personally I grew up very middle-income, paid my own tuition in college, and am living comfortably now (not rich, but well enough).. sometimes not being given everything can be a good motivator to earn things on your own
The value of learning to work for things you want, almost can't be overstated with kids. But lots of families forego it, and with predictable results.
People shouldn't be house poor - that's not wise.. people who do that look too romantically upon the idea of home ownership. However, at least in my neck of the woods you can easily spend $2K or more per month on relatively mediocre apartment housing. When you write that $2,200 rent check you are doing all of the following:
-Not building equity
-Not actually buying something that is yours
-Not building your credit worthiness (you're not hurting it either)
-Not having a guarantee on your future housing
-Not having a guarantee on your monthly rental amount
-Etc.
On the flip side, if you were instead putting that $2,200 towards a mortgage then you are actually physically buying something that is yours with each mortgage payment and you can use your house as a bank with lines equity credit, you can borrow against yourself, and on a long enough time scale homes are a pretty guaranteed net positive investment. So even in a market downturn if you can keep your job and keep making those payments you can come out the other side
But home ownership is not right for everyone, and people need to think long and hard before purchasing for a myriad of reasons
Technically, even after you "buy" the house, especially "no money down" or similar, you're still paying rent for a very long time. Folks don't understand amortization schedules. You'll have almost nothing in equity / own almost nothing, for almost a decade on a 30 year loan.
With the average home "buyer" moving houses every seven years...
Unfortunately that's a by product of capitalism though, no industry in the US is immune to that
I love the people who spend $2,400 on a Macbook Pro simply to scroll their Facebook and Twitter feeds. A big part of marketing and advertising is how aggressively can you trick the buyer into spending their money on your product
There's a tad bit of difference there... at least under Apple's old quality levels. You can probably use that MacBook for at least seven, if not ten, years. Barely. $240/year isn't awful for a toy. At least for some budgets.
Whether right or wrong, many people who were plenty capable of paying their mortgage walked away. While one part of me thinks its a crap thing, the other part of me says, its a business deal. It made better financial sense to walk. I don't think I could do it, but I understand why some did.
I never faulted people for doing it. The neighbors who got ****y and destroyed the house on their way out, they probably deserved some sort of additional penalty or even criminal charges, though. Holes in the garage doors, they stripped the place bare, including light fixtures and wall switches, all flooring, and then put holes in the interior walls and plumbing. Surprised they stopped before breaking all the windows. Sat that way for a long time before the bank could afford to fix it and sell it.
Of course, the former "owners" included the guy who did an oil change on his Toyota in the driveway, drained the oil into a standard plastic oil pan, and then decided he'd try to put the pan in the passenger seat of said Toyota to take it somewhere for disposal... with expected results. I wouldn't put them very far up the "bright" list, and I sure as hell cant imagine their income level matched the house.
But they were sure mad when they found out, via foreclosure. Destroyed everything they could.
They also liked to park on the lawn, no kidding. You just look out your windows one nice summer evening and theres the oil stained Toyota parked under the tree in the center of the lawn. Quite entertaining.