Does it count if you trade the quantity of someone else’s life for the quality of your own?
Jealous husband?not sure how 'womanizing' would shorten one's lifespan, short of your peter falling off.
I smoked when I was younger, greatest thing I ever done did, giving those nasty lil fokkers up.
booze? yes, I like my booze.
also not sure how flying would shorten one's life unless, well, u know.
so I guess my answer is, imma have fun until the fat lady sings.
Me and the wife found a way around that little problem. When we go to the restaurant they always ask me why I'm watching her eat while my food gets cold. "I'm waiting for her to get done using the teeth" is my reply.
One thing I gave up that greatly improved my quality of life was saying "I can't wait until.....". When I realized how much of my life I was spending waiting for the next "big" thing and not living, I quit doing that and got back a lot of in-the-moment life.
One word: Pre-chewed food.....
(sorry about the Polish sub titles)
One thing I gave up was watching the news, especially anything to do with politics. I feel so much better these day!
I had an uncle that smoked, drank alcohol and was over weight just about all of his adult life. He lived to be 83 and died due to blood clots caused by injuries in a car wreck, where the other driver was at fault. Now while he wasn't the picture of perfect health, he did not have any health problems usually associated with life long smokers/drinkers.
George Burns lived to 100... Late in life he dedicated his autobiography to the widow of the doctor who told him to quit smoking, and to the widow who told him to stop drinking, and to the widow of the doctor who told him to get more exercise.
Aristotle said we should seek a mean.
Who has empirical proof that drinking, enjoying the company of the opposite (or hell, even the same--to each thier own) gender, enjoying food, or flying has the -nth degree on health or longevity.
That guy that wrote the best-selling health and fitness book. He died from a heart attack while jogging.
Ah, but that is not what I said.It's not that there isn't data correlating smoking, heavy drinking, overeating, etc etc with reduced lifespan. It's that the data applies to the population; you can't look at an average and say it applies to each individual.
There will always be smokers who outlive non-smokers, heavy drinkers who outlive teetotalers, voracious consumers of red meat who outlive vegetarians, sedentary obese people who outlive marathon runners. Bell curves have tails, and there will always be some people who are a couple of standard deviations off the norm. But you don't necessarily want to bet that you're one of them.
FTFY, no thanks required.If you avoid anything associated with Twitter, you’ll live to 100 and be in perfect health when the Zombie Apocalypse kills everyone on Twitter.
Cheers
Many folks I know over 80 seem to average 3 doctor appts per week, mobility issues and the dreaded dementia/Alzheimer’s. Aging is not easy, so there’s a plus side to not outliving your body. Probably not a popular view, but it’s just the way I see it. I am not endorsing euthanasia, but just know that once you’re into your 80’s it’s usually all down hill. Medical science can keep you going, but are you really enjoying life?
My parents are 88 and 95, thankfully in fine shape. My dad spent 15 months in Korea ('52-'53) with a guy. His buddy died at 23 in his home town, after serving over a year in a war zone half a world away, a pedestrian struck by a car that didn't stop for a stop sign...That's been my observation, too. My mother was doing fine until age 82, and then it was four years of declining health. I watched her and both my inlaws slowly decline and eventually die. Fortunately, none suffered from dementia.
Do things that you enjoy. If one of them does you in, well, that's the way it goes.