Timmer
Pre-takeoff checklist
From my experiences, I am a student, about to do my long cross country flight. I am just now getting to where I am only using light fingers on the yoke. I still get a little tight on take-off and in the pattern, especially if it's bumpy.
It's a focused effort though, especially at first, to say "OK, let go of the yoke; now use just the finger tips and see how I need to move the plane to keep it level... now trim to counter that; let go; and repeat...."
I wouldn't expect anything magical, but rather it's something you've done step one with which is knowing it's something to work on it, so now work on it. Good luck and have fun!
It's a focused effort though, especially at first, to say "OK, let go of the yoke; now use just the finger tips and see how I need to move the plane to keep it level... now trim to counter that; let go; and repeat...."
I wouldn't expect anything magical, but rather it's something you've done step one with which is knowing it's something to work on it, so now work on it. Good luck and have fun!