Maybe I'm missing something.
If you're stalled...it's too late to use the ailerons, you're falling with style.
If you've fully stalled and you're uncoordinated, then whether you lifted the wing up or not is irrelevant, you're spinning whether the wing was up or down.
In the incipient stall, you're still flying, so you're use the ailerons. If you let a wing drop, then you're flying a different direction.
I have read things that say to use rudder at slow speed because that great big rudder will be more effective than the ailerons. But I don't think that advice was meant for incipient stalls, it was meant for slow flight. The trick is that the two are very close to each other.