But the main point is, that since there is no detonation, the damage is caused by something completely different. The peak pressure has almost zero effect on the damage that happens in the combustion chamber, and why it damages pistons.
All combustion is deflagration, even normal combustion, so there is no deflagration "event". What matters really is how the multiple flame kernels behave, and how the "ripples" break the boundary layer in the cylinder walls and allow more heat to transfer to the mechanical parts inside the engine. That is why EGT drops and CHT increases normally.
Thinking it's an explosion that happens leads to these urban myths like what Tom-D just repeated. Understanding what the process is makes it easier to figure out what damage it causes, and why.