And let's not forget about
"ATIS Information Bubba"
"in the little window thing that tells you how high you are."
Hahahaha, that was great.
I started my training and do most of it out of a towered airport (KSTS in Santa Rosa). I can see how it could be a little intimidating at first for those that aren't used to them.
I'm honestly glad that I started with them, sure I've made some mistakes over the airwaves, but I really think that it's contributed to my confidence in the plane. I've found that having to make all my calls to the tower has just helped me to be more aware of what's happening at all times.
I think one thing that happens with a lot of us when we are not used to the tower is we tend to think of it as nothing more than an authority figure watching us every minute, when the intention is really to HELP us. Most controllers I've worked with are very polite and eager to do their job. Also, it's amazing how saying "student pilot" or "unfamiliar with your airspace" can help them do their job and adapt their instructions to you.
At times I've gotten myself into a little trouble by talking too confidently over the radio, giving the controller the impression that I'm very experienced and then they'll talk even faster than I did and I wind up having to get lots of clarification when I can't interpret fast enough.
My CFI emphasizes that it's important to listen to all transmissions, not just those intended for you, and that has helped me a lot. I'll be midfield on the downwind and hear a jet report a 3 mile final and get straight in clearance, after hearing that I can start looking for it so hopefully I can say "traffic in sight" in my response to instructions to extend downwind or maybe a 360 for spacing, it's really helped me anticipate what's going to happen before I get the call from ATC.