Many thanks to all of you. It does mean a lot.
I know that many of you don't understand the motivation to pay for a kidney transplant in a cat, and to be honest, I am having a little issue with it myself. Let me try to explain my point of view:
I had always thought of myself as a dog person. About 25 years ago, I was a senior systems engineer for a major fortune 500 company. I was the lead in a group of about 10 people that would provide technical services to any of the corporation's divisions. Over the years we had people come and go in our group and even though we only hired the best into our group, they all needed some amount of training. Some did better than others. Then I hired Leslie. She soaked everything up like a sponge and would wind up teaching the rest of us.
Jump ahead a few years. We got married and I became step dad to a couple of cats. The conversion was starting.
Soon she let me know that she needed a new challenge. Just like all young girls, she had always wanted to be a veterinarian. Yikes: Giving up a great job and starting over in school when we are both in our 30s! I knew it was tough t get in Vet school, especially when you are older so I thought it might take a few tries and maybe shw would change her mind. I should have known better. She was accepted on her first try and graduated Suma-Cum-Laude.
After a few years she applied for Board Certification as a Feline Specialist and again, in the minimum period passed the final test with the highest grade in the country and became one of only 73 Board Certified Feline Specialists in the world. There are hundreds that are certified in Canine+Feline, but Feline only is more rare and more specialized.
She is the driving force behind our successful business.
Then one day, out of the blue (after driving 8 hours to Key West and passing the airport) she said she wanted to learn to fly so we wouldn't have to make that drive any more. I thought she was kidding. I had given up my ticket before we met due to medical issues and we hardly ever talked about flying. A year later she had her PPL so I bought her an airplane.
She got me back into flying without me even asking. Some of you might remember a thread I started several years ago about "My wife saved my life" when our engine blew up at 1,000 ft 5 miles from an airport and she put it down on a highway.
Over the years, Leslie has had many cats and she loved all of them. When they reached the point where their quality of life was gone, she was the one to help them escape. Even though she desperately wished to keep them alive, and she was the one that could do it, she always knew when the time came. I would not have been strong enough to carry that out, but she was and she did what was necessary.
Sorry this is so long, but the whole point is that she doesn't think it is Moose's time and if we let Moose die without doing all she can, then all her work will have been meaningless. She is trying to hide it but I can tell she is frantic.
There is no way on God's earth I am going to let her go through that. Even if Moose doesn't make it, I have to try. It is the least I can do for Leslie.
We are leaving soon. The weather looks good for flying, except for the headwind. We will just have to keep an extra eye on the new carb temp gauge because of the temp and humidity. And Leslie actually understands all of that too.