true, but they have to be a "standard part" thats what the SAE standard is all about for light bulbs. anyone manufacturing a light bulb numbered as a say, 4509 must meet the SAE standard for that number. PAR 36 led replacements are not manufactured to that standard, because SAE has a different standard for LED bulbs. thats why they are marketed as a PAR 36 replacement for a 4509. they cant call it a 4509. the only way you can legally install an LED landing light in an aircraft certified with a standard bulb is with an approved replacement part. your right, nobody has been issued a PMA to sell one. thats why whelen went through the trouble and expense to get the STC.
now as to a landing light being require, you are also right. however, if you aircraft was certified with one in it, they you must properly document it if its inop. it must be deactivated, or removed the switch needs to be labled inop, and a maintenance entry needs to be made.