Let me get this straight.
A military IP complains that the civilian Tower...
... who was following the SVFR law every 40 hour Private Pilot knows...
... even AFTER he read the regs that state exactly why the Tower couldn't offer the clearance...
... still says the Tower was "unfriendly".
When someone points out that this is common knowledge...
... he busts into an ugly rant about all other aviators and how much better he is than they...
... because he "pulls G's" and has cute derrogatory names for people who know their regs better than he...
... and then tries to say he wants more camaraderie in the aviation world.
I'm laughing my butt off here.
Some advice, you probably don't want to hear...
I'd buy you a beer and thank you for your service anytime, soldier.
I'm also jealous as hell of your job and glad you're teaching kids the survival skills they'll need in combat.
Even all those awful extra regs you have to memorize, to have the privilege of flying that turboprop I paid for you to have, sound pretty cool to me.
I fly a desk every day to pay 50% of my income to Uncle Sam, so you get to memorize that stuff and teach those kids.
But you sure have some funny ideas on how to build comraderie, if you believe all those awful things you said about your fellow aviators.
I'm more pro-military than most people my age, and respect everything you're doing, but I'm not above telling you that your head is up and locked if you think it's someone else's fault that you don't know the SVFR regs.
Now if you want to say the reg is stupid, and adds unnecessary risk by forcing the Tower to play 20-questions, I'm right there with ya. 100% agreed.
Want comraderie? Try this...
"Thanks. It appears I screwed the pooch in front of a student. I understand Special VFR now."
You want other pilots to be friendly, you'd be well-advised to stop bitching about them. Especially the civvies who bought you that turboprop.
I like the spirit of what you're trying to say, but you trashed your argument when you trash-talked other pilots in the same post where you said you want more camaraderie.
Attitude check. Lead by example.