Sure, concur, more skill and "stress management" is required when executing a forced landing off airport. Clearly, the chute isn't exactly a "zero-zero" system, either, but given the airplane's performance range, yeah, it's a legitimate safety feature.
But I wouldn't have beat him up if he chose to land this one, versus deploying the parachute. Pulling the chute turns you into a passenger, and I did enough airdrops to know parachute systems can fan/do fail. Again, I imagine failure is a low probability with the Cirrus system, if done within limitations. But once deployed, good chute or not, that's what you're stuck with. Personally, I think (but can't know, of course) I would have done the landing thing in this case. In another situation, who knows? Night, urban, loss of control, probably pull. . .
But mostly I fly a 172 now, in which a forced landing into the average driveway is survivable, given the low touchdown energy possible. Maybe I'd feel differently in a Cirrus, with higher speeds, less benign low-speed handling, and a ready option installed that off-sets those shortcomings?