Tom, that AD has been complied with on virtually every BE35 Bonanza flying and it applies to the very latest models produced. As to your "1 wrong move/mistake", either you are kidding or just plain wrong. It is true that a Bo will get you into trouble faster than a 172 simply because it goes faster and can cover a lot more ground (and weather) in a single hop. They are definitely less stable in roll than your typical Cessna but not enough so that it matters. And any model 35 Bonanza is easier to land than any 172 (or Fairchild for that matter).
Most if not all of the "Forked tail doctor killer" rep resulted from too many pilots with more money than flying skill and/or common sense. Virtually all of the V-tail inflight breakups involved flight well beyond the design flight envelope and/or with seriously improper rigging (loose cables/linkages leading to flutter issues).
Read the AD list and tell me how cheap the Bo's are to maintain..
2007-08-08 Landing gear uplock rollers
2002-21-13 Never exceed speed, Vne
2001-23-10 Flap flex shaft assemblies
99-05-13 W Withdrawal of AD 99-05-13
99-05-13 Fuel selector position placard - Withdrawn
98-13-02 Never exceed speed, Vne - Superseded by AD 2002-21-13
97-06-11 Ruddervator differential tail control rod assembly
94-20-04 Structural failure of V-tail - Revised by AD 94-20-04 R1
89-05-02 Elevator control fittings
87-20-02 R1 Structural failure of V-tail - Superseded by 94-20-04
84-09-01 Window emer. egress prov
76-05-04 Stabilizer attach fitting
75-15-08 Engine lubrication
75-05-02 Engine oil
72-22-01 Landing gear uplock rollers - Superseded by AD 2007-08-08
72-18-01 Fuel selector valve warning light
72-11-02 Engine fuel interruption
69-18-01 Fuel system modification
63-25-01 Fuselage modification
62-08-03 Control wheels
57-18-01 Structural failure of V-tail - Superseded by 94-20-04
55-22-01 Oil outlet check valve
53-01-02 Fuel selector valve rework
51-14-01 Fuel booster pump removal
49-48-01 Thompson fuel pump
49-31-01 Emergency fuel pump "O" rings
49-26-01 Trailing antenna rework
49-04-01 Aileron chain
48-08-01 Starter rework
47-47-08 Fuel line chafing
47-47-07 Engine identification plate
E-225 Series
98-17-11 Crankshaft failure
97-21-02 Side loading of the piston
97-15-01 PL Side loading of the piston - Superseded by AD 97-21-02
95-21-15 Detonation due to low octane
94-14-12 PL Detonation due to low octane - Superseded by AD 95-21-15
63-15-01 Exhaust valves
60-12-01 Piston pin assembly
60-06-04 Generator drive gear retaining nut internal tooth lockwasher
56-06-01 Piston pin assembly
The one mistake that will kill you is not being proficience, or allowing a non Beech mechanic work on your elevons or flight controls.
Name one beech shop that is a cheap place to have your Bo worked on.