One of the findings was that 60% had no ability and no categories to make moral decisions. The meaning is that they have lost the language of "good" and "evil". They have lost the definitions of those concepts.
These young adults wouldn't say that something is "wrong" or that it's "bad". Instead, they say that it's "stupid". Or they might say that that person "sick" or "pathological"
Father's point as I understood it is basically they aren't seeing things in terms of right or wrong. These young adults aren't equipped to choose between good over evil.
Or maybe, we finally have a generation who realizes that not everything is black and white. In fact, very few things are. But "stupid" or "sick" or "pathological" might as well be synonyms for evil, so I don't know how he comes to the conclusion that they don't know right from wrong.
It’s interesting that nearly every generation says this. It seems, as we get older we “learn” things, then look at the younger generation and say, “kids these days…”
We also seem to forget that previous generations said things like this about us.
We AGAIN need compulsory military service, 2 years. It needs be part of our common experience.
I don't agree with military as the only method, but I do think that we largely need to get American kids out of their hometowns, out of the little shells we build for them, and out into the world. Whether it's military, peace corps, community service, or something.
"Travel is fatal to prejuidce, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one's lifetime."
Without absolute truth, morality means nothing.
Yet today, our grasp of truth and reality is tenuous at best, with people who are seeking power doing their best to create their own reality via ownership of media.
Now, we can ask what happened to make instilling good morals by parents change? Well, you can look at people not being religious. Ok, then why is that? Quite possibly/probably from the very public moral failings of various clergy leaders.
Yes. Hypocrisy continues to push me farther and farther from organized religion, even though I think (hope) it is a minority of religious people who are causing it. Love thy neighbor, except if they're gay or immigrants or don't look like us? Sorry, no.
Parenting time. A significant increase in the number of either single-parent households or households where both parents need to work (sometimes multiple jobs) to make ends meet. That leaves TikTok and YouTube to fill the void. Maybe all those increases in worker productivity that lead to great stock market gains have a societal cost?
Yup. And I know this all too well as a parent who has to plop his kid in front of the TV more than I'd like. There are great resources on TV and we watch things together that we can both learn from. One proud moments was when my then-6 year old said out of the blue one day, "Daddy, I want to learn CAD!" On the other hand, certain content also caused him to start getting sneaky, so we went cold turkey for a while, whereupon after a few days without any screens he said how he felt much better about himself because of it.
I also see a lot of parents who don't understand the importance of setting an example for their kids. It is incredibly difficult to get Millennial/Gen Y parents to volunteer to support activities that benefit their own kids (sports, scouts, anything). This will result in another generation who don't understand personal sacrifice. I don't agree that we need a form of mandatory public service, but there should be ways to better incentivize volunteerism.
See the part above about both parents needing to work. There's also a lot more positive opportunities for kids these days... My school-age kid literally has activities happening after school every day of the week, and even the younger one has stuff going on. To make it all work, my wife and I literally have to switch kids at soccer practice.
If somehow an opportunity arises where I can contribute positively to something one of my kids is doing and it actually works with the crazy schedule of being a parent, I'll absolutely do it, but I'm not optimistic at this point!