And of course there is the fear that turning it into a job would remove all the fun.
Only if you let it. There is a world of difference between airline flying and personal flying. I'd say over half the guys I fly with (including myself) are still involved in GA. They own airplanes, go visit family, take the grandkids for fun $100 hamburger flights, etc. Most of the professional pilots I work with love aviation and still enjoy all aspects of it.
Ok.....how are you suited for beeper attire?....and limo gigs? Same difference.
Totally different. Part 121 is scheduled (except for the percentage of the pilots on reserve). You know your schedule at least a month in advance, and it rarely changes (and when it does, they pay you for the inconvenience).
In base. Commuting sucks...really bad.
It depends. Obviously, living in base is great, but commuting isn't a lifestyle killer. It depends on what you value. If your family has planted deep roots where you live, it may be better for you to commute than uproot the whole family. My first airline, I lived in base. It was nice. After my furlough, and getting hired with my second (current) airline, I've commuted the entire time. The family is living where we like, the kids didn't have to change schools, and it only cause me a bit of inconvenience every once in a while, but it definitely didn't suck.
Just for a snapshot of what a Part 121 schedule typically is, I looked at our bidpack for March. March for us is 5 weeks long, 35 days in that month.
The average days off for FOs is 21. The average hours for pay is 95.
My particular schedule has me with two trips. The first is a 9 day trip that has me flying to Seoul, SK (21 hour layover) then a first class commercial deadhead to Guangzhou, CN (40 hour layover). Operate Guangzhou to Cologne, GE (45 hour layover), then a first class deadhead on Cathay Pacific to Hong Kong (38 hour layover), then operate Hong Kong back to my domicile.
The next trip is a 5 day trip. Fly to Cambridge, UK (24 hour layover). Deadhead to Cologne, GE (36 hour layover), then fly Cologne to Paris, sit in a hotel there for about 6 hours, then fly to Frankfurt, GE (layover for 22 hours), then fly back to base.
That's 14 days of work. 100 hours of pay. 60 hours of block time.
I realize that it's not for everyone. I get that not everyone would enjoy the job. But for me, it's great, and I couldn't imagine going to work in an office to sit in front of a computer monitor M-F 9 hours a day. I did that for 4 years during my furlough. Glad I don't have to do that anymore.