@Troska
I grew up in a world where the N word was used more by Black comedians than the general public (because they thought it was funny, or why else would they?) and you could use an Indian as your team mascot without causing an uprising because the symbol was more about the great things an American Indian represented, and everyone understood that. A time when Boy Scouts were boys and Girl Scouts were girls, and a time when High School sports were divided into Girl and Boy events and didn't include Gender Identity as a reason to compete (unfairly, in my opinion) across those divides.
You have to live in the world and form your own opinions. To say that a child hears "women are bad pilots" and that becomes fact in their minds is insulting. They are sponges of information, yes, but they have the ability (or should) to form their own opinions though their own experiences. when you shield them from such things, you are doing them a disservice. Yea, they may hear whispers that women are bad pilots, but they will also hear that many women are GREAT Pilots. The conflict might even make them look deeper into the subject on their own. It's up to them to form their own opinion on the subject. To do otherwise is to impose your opinions on them, meaning you are simply raising clones of yourself.
This is not about getting whiny about anything. It's simply about not taking things so seriously that we can't just have a little humor! My argument is not about your ideals or that I may disagree with your opinion. Its about your inability to just laugh - or not, and not feel the need call someone out on it.