Sorry to hear you've had that experience. That could certainly happen if #3 cylinder is running richest, the operator routinely operates at 75% power, and they lean only a little bit (not enough) because they're trying to avoid roughness. In the absence of an engine monitor, you have to lean as far as physically possible (LOP-WOT), so that you'll know if one of the cylinders is still rich (if so, the engine will vibrate like crazy, because of the steep power drop-off on the lean side).
Or even better, install an engine monitor, as some O-320 and O-360 owners do, then you'll be able to be certain that you're not operating any of your cylinders in the red zone around 50°F ROP.
I'd also be curious to know how many of those engine owners weren't actually operating LOP, but just "leaning to roughness and then enriching slightly", or "leaning to peak RPM and then a little more", both or which can be recipes for landing right on 50°F ROP and peak CHT.