I’m 193 lbs, my spouse is 213 lbs. I have two dogs (23 lbs and 25 lbs). I’d probably be carrying around 75 lbs of luggage. I would be flying anywhere from 50 nm (almost every weekend) to 2000 nm (stops included (once or twice a year)). I’d most likely be stopping at concrete strips, or larger airports. Looking for something in the 50 to 500k range.
Currently working on VFR, Will then immediately work on IFR. Training for a single engine plane (I’m in an Arrow currently). I live in Southern California.
Get through your private pilot. Look to see if there are some other planes in your area that you can rent and try them out.
A 50 nm is just for fun. Short of going over terrain where there is no road driving is
much faster for only 50 nm.
That 2,000 nm flight, is that one-way or 2,000 nm round trip? That's a long way in a piston. I did a big across the country trip this year, 3,600+ nm round trip. It's a long way. Commercial is generally better for that; notice I said "generally" not "always".
What is a more common range for where you would travel? Being in Southern California you may want/need to go over some mountains, depending upon where you like to travel. A turbo would be very beneficial if that's the case. If not, then a normally aspirated engine would be fine. Flying to skiing in the winter can be challenging even with de-icing for a single engine piston plane.
Typically any of the good "traveling planes" should work fine. Bonanza, Cirrus, Mooney, Saratoga/Lance, etc. Look for 160 knots or better in cruise.
How much "stuff" do you bring on trips? Is that 75 lbs normal, or what you think you could get down to? We travel light, even on the airlines, except for when we used to drive a minivan and then we brought way too much.
If it's a lot, then Saratoga/Lance or A36 may be a good option for you. If you and your wife are lighter packers, then a Bo, Mooney or Cirrus would work well. Having 75 lbs of luggage is fine for any of those planes.