That's great and all but that only applies if there's increased wake turbulence separation for that particular situation.
For instance take your Cirrus example. We'll disregard the VA approach clearance and call him VFR. There is no wake turbulence separation because the Brasila isn't a large or a heavy. There is however standard VFR vs VFR/IFR separation in a Class B. The Brasila is a small (+) weighing greater than 19,000 lbs. Therefore the controller at SFO is required to keep the Cirrus at least 1.5 miles in trail of the Brasilia if less than 500 ft vertical. The controller in this case "pointed out" traffic on the Brasila for the Cirrus to follow. After seeing the traffic, the Cirrus was directed to maintain visual separation from the traffic and to follow it. Now, if the Cirrus pilot said "unable, request wake turbulence separation" it would be a useless transmission. The pilot has already been afforded standard Class B separation before hand. Whether or not they want to maintain that separation that ATC provided, is entirely up to the Cirrus pilot. That's the whole point of using visual. Maintain standard sep until the pilot reports the preceding traffic in sight, then put the responsibility on the trailing pilot's shoulders.