So a few updates: I get a look at the corporate book tomorrow. I in no way think they are purposely trying to screw me, but I would like to know if my name is indeed on the corporate agreement.
Beyond that there are just a lot of open questions. We don't have any bylaws or an operating agreement of any kind. Which is just nonsense. The one we are using as a "template" says we need to vote on a maintenance manager and a business manager, neither of which we have done; and that each would be compensated $100 per month or 1 flight hour per month for their work. Now, the guy who does the management of things does a great job - he keeps the monthly accounting, pays all the bills (I have no reason to believe they aren't paid), and I have no problem with him being compensated. But we were never asked, there was never a vote. And I'm pretty sure (based on his negative balance on the monthly accounting sheet) that he is indeed being compensated. And another thing: equipment upgrades require the consent of the majority of the members in the form of a vote. We've done new radios, the 650, and ADS-B, and never had a single vote about anything (partly because we've never had a meeting I'd imagine). We just get a bill.
So we're using this other club's operating agreement as a template, and we are following exactly none of it.
Lastly, I wrote the member who flipped out and apologized. I just like to smooth the feathers, as it were. I got a response back which was mostly positive, but was explaining how the other pilot could be PIC. Now, the other owner is on Basic Med and had a heart attack a few months ago. So he can't fly under basic med. Not only that, he's over 80 years old, and our insurance policy (which I just read) says pilots over 80 need to be accompanied by a CFI. So strike 2. Not only that, our insurance policy specifically says you have to have a "medical certificate". No mention of Basic Med. But I'm not going to argue. (This could explain another mystery - a few weeks ago, when the one pilot told me they didn't have a medical - the two of them went flying in our airplane. Now, I know that neither of them were legal - one had no medical, the other had Basic Med, but had just had a heart attack, so no joy. They likely THOUGHT he could be PIC because he was on Basic Med, but that's not the case).
Anyway, I look at the corporate book tomorrow, and if my name is in it I'm going to feel a whole lot better. If not, I'm not going to be happy.