@Lndwarrior,
Did you ever see many years ago the guy building a Rotorway Helicopter kit? It was some sort of produced TV show if I recall correctly, for some cable TV channel. The way I remember it it's like your happy youtube vids on steroids. It might have even been before youtube.
Anyway, you wrote, "You will spend 45 minutes trying to get an AN6 nut onto it's screw. And this will happen over and over again until you want to scream."
THAT I understand intuitively and is exactly why I said that I would go for any quickbuild option I could get!
I have done enough examination of my own self to know that I truly enjoy the process of investigation, research, and discovery of the solution. But....While I enjoy that good feeling of accomplishment when I finally figure out just the right approach to get that nut started and torqued, enough is enough!
As I was reading your posts, I was thinking about all the different kinds of people out there. This applies to not only aircraft projects, but could be just the same for anything really....cars, boats, motorcycles, kitchen remodels, landscaping, etc....
So many start projects and never even get close to finishing. Others like I assume you, finished but would probably never do it again.
Still others have built more than one airplane.....and others that have built many more than two, even scratch built...and also help others.
I recon a big part of it is a combination of aptitude, ability, and experience...but another big part is attitude. And mixed in somewhere big is available resources. Some folks have a nice big and convenient workshop, maybe access to a machine shop, access to parts and materials, favorable work schedule, a family situation that encourages or even facilitates..... lots of variables.
Some people have a mechanical aptitude. Some people have a spatial/visual aptitude. And some don't. And I find it interesting to look at different folks...those that are self professed "handy" and those that are not. Many that most definitely do NOT call themselves handy, really do have a great mechanical aptitude and spatial intelligence I think, but just don't find enjoyment in it.
I'm reminded of an old 1926 vintage little house I bought back before I was married. It needed a lot of work. I was single and so had lots of time and didn't have to juggle with others schedules and needs....but that was back in the day when I was travelling for work.... a lot. I did a lot to the house at first, mostly small to medium type stuff at first just to get settled. Quickly I jumped into a complete kitchen gut and remodel, down to the sub floor replacing an old fashioned wood floor first. Now I don't have a lot of construction experience, but do have a pretty good aptitude and have dabbled in basic woodworking and home repair a fair bit. I had successfully tackled projects in other houses that many folks that know, told me to NOT try.... such as a tile shower total gut to the studs mud job re-build. Well, I gutted the kitchen as was well underway...living with a fridge in the garage and a microwave in the dining room. Throw in many multi-week trips for work and it soon had me burned out. The last thing I wanted to do when I got back home was to work on that kitchen...but I had to push forward. I couldn't go out to the detached garage for something out of the fridge every time I wanted breakfast...but I did fall into quite a regular habit of dinner every night up at the corner pub a block and a half away! Anyway, I did finish eventually and I'm quite proud of how it turned out, but that project ruined me and I never did get that house fixed up like I imagined it could be. I did however tackle another full on kitchen remodel in another house a few years later.