Having been through a similar experience, let me add a few words of encouragement.
Like you, I took much longer to solo than I expected. There were several reasons - multiple CFI changes (I'm on #4 now), aircraft and weather delays, and my own slow learning. Every CFI change (they quit for airline jobs) would result in a couple of weeks lost before I could start flying again; add in a wx or plane cancellation, and I might go 3 or 4 weeks between lessons. I'd slide back down the learning curve, then have to work back up again.
Anyway, I finally soloed a few weeks ago, and there's no reason to think you won't get there as well.
If you're doing this for fun, try looking at it this way. You're going to be paying for every hour you fly, whether it's a lesson or not, so set that aside. Enjoy the lessons as you expect to enjoy any flying time. You're in the air, at the controls of a plane, away from earthbound worries for a while, enjoying the view from the sky, and sexy ladies are waiting to throw themselves at you once you land (you have to keep some dreams alive, no?).
Focus on the journey, not a destination.
Also, there's an upside to spending more time in instruction. You'll encounter more situations and have to make more decisions in the air, and you'll be doing them with the safety net of an instructor. By the time I soloed, I'd used 7 different runways at 3 different airports, both towered and non-towered, had to deal with various traffic situations, flown extended downwinds and circled for traffic spacing, had a tower call my base turn a few times, done go-arounds for traffic on the runway, experienced a variety of wind conditions, landed in the rain, etc., etc.
There's no way that a guy who solos in 10 hours has gained all that experience.
A little practical advice concerning some things that helped me:
- Make sure you have a good sight picture over the cowl. I'm vertically challenged, and my landings saw a big improvement when I got a seat cushion from Sporty's and could see better.
- Be sure you're consistent with speed on your downwind leg. When you're abeam the numbers and reduce power, if your speed is different each time around then your base and final legs won't be consistent either.
- When you round out over the runway, pay attention to where you focus your eyes. One instructor kept telling me to look all the way down the runway. BS. You can't get a good perspective for your height above ground if you're looking at a point a mile away. For me, it worked to focus my eyes about 400 feet out. The best focus point might be different for you, but you need to find it and be conscious and consistent about it every time.
It's been said that there are three secrets to a perfect landing, but unfortunately Orville didn't tell anyone what they were before he died.
All pilots make poor landings from time to time. I was on a 747 two weeks ago when the pilot slammed it so hard onto the runway in Newark that my landings began to seem
great.
Don't get down on yourself; for some of us this is a matter of incremental improvement rather than a sudden breakthrough.
And when you need a little pick-me-up,
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