sferguson524
Pattern Altitude
Wow, lots of great advice. Thank you.
Let me add a little more details to give a better idea what I'm looking for.
Weather- I absolutely HATE humidity. I want to avoid it. NYC has been gross for the past 15-20 years, it seems like it gets worse every year. 90+ degrees and 80%+ humidity. Gross. I didn't know that Midwest summers are hot and humid. I thought it was a more temperate climate. Snow doesn't really bother me but then again a lot of snow for extended periods would definitely suck. Not big on oceans (can't swim) and been in the mountains once or twice as a kid.
Traffic- I have grown tired of NYC traffic. And NY drivers in general, they are always in a big hurry and mostly classless. They won't let you merge or let u turn left if they are driving in opposite direction. Then you have morons who wait until the very last second before the exit to try and force their way in front of you instead of waiting in line like most others. And the petty accidents, luckily I've only had a couple. But I had some guy sideswipe me on Saturday. I was going to the mall with my daughter and making a right turn from the right lane. A guy comes out of nowhere like a maniac driving on the parking lane and tries to pass me on the right as I'm making the right turn. Of course he smacked right into my right side. He pulls up half a block later and I behind him. I took a picture of his car and him walking towards me, but he didn't notice I guess. He comes over looks at my car and tries to get me to not call the cops. But it's a lease. so it has to go through insurance. Once he sees that I'm calling 911, he jumps in his car and takes off tires screeching. Luckily, I had his plate and face in the pic. His insurance told me this morning that they are taking 100% responsibility and mailing me the check for the damage. This kind of nonsense where if you drive like a normal person you get cursed at by classless idiots. I have young kids, so I don't drive like a typical NY'er. Just want some more relaxed normal people to deal with. Went to a wedding in Toledo, Ohio. Seemed like a nice small city feel. Only spent 2 days there.
People- I have started to realize the truth that there are a lot of classless people here. Complete ass-holes. But like somebody said, they are everywhere, just lower proportion/numbers.
Job- I'm only 41 so retirement is not an option yet. I will have to work. I worked in financial services, and I have a degree in economics, MBA in finance, and some experience in computer science during my undergrad days. Finding a job shouldn't be hard. Finding a good, well paying job-- I have no idea. But I'm not moving anywhere without securing at least a doable job first, and can always look for the great one once there. Wife doesn't really have a career, works a dead-end job just to get out of the house. So she doesn't care where we go.
Taxes- I agree NYC 3 tax system is a joke. When single, I was paying over 50%. Now it's 40.
Aviation- it's a hobby and I'm sure I could find it in most places or near by. Not a huge concern honestly, the family is first.
Other areas- The other area that I have looked at is the mid-Atlantic I think it's called. Virginia, Maryland, Delaware, maybe even West VA. And yes, NC too. Charlotte and Raleigh)
Again, I don't know if I will actually get laid off. I feel bad saying this but I'm secretly hoping that I do, so I can take my severance and go. If I'd find something great, I may just quit and go without a severance.
Personally I moved from CA to NV 3 years ago. vegas is definitely interesting. We have more here than the gaming industry, but obviously that dominates.. Car gas is 2.50/gal and 100LL at VGT is 3.99 i think.. No state income tax, and minimul traffic.