So, I've got a whopping 1.5 hours in a cirrus; here are some of my thoughts. They're worth what you paid for them.
1.) I've flown a few high performance airplanes that have spring centered controls (T-6B Texan II is the most directly comparable to a GA airplane). Never found that the springs affected control feel all that much airborne, just on the ground taxiing. I'd definitely take springs on the controls for built in gust protection while parked on the ramp.
2.) As far as the parachute and it's haters go; until you've flown an airplane that has an escape mechanism, it's hard to realize the comfort and peace of mind that it gives you. After going from my work airplane sitting on a rocket seat, my first purchase for my new RV-8 was a set of parachutes. Not sure how much good they'll do me, but there is a peace of mind associated with knowing that there is an option to ditch the airplane if you get to that point. When I'm instructing annual emergency procedures simulators, I build in a scenario that will require ejection at some point, just to make sure the aircrew will do so when the time comes. Your hide is worth more than the vehicle, and I think that applies to General Aviation as well. Not saying that the chute should be a substitute for good airmanship or headwork, but having an out is a good thing IMHO.
3.) I don't see the CB panel as a big safety issue. You aren't going to be pulling CB's in normal operation. Learn your airplane and it's systems. Count CB's when you pull one and make sure you have the right one. Critical systems should have collars around them. Every military airplane I've flown has required counting circuit breakers and memorization of switch positions that you could feel but not see. Part of being a pilot is systems knowledge, and a blind cockpit check or critical systems is the absolute minimum level of preparation one could do if you plan on flying IMC or night VMC.
4.) Double stick tape holding fairings on, it s a bit alarming for a $800,000 airplane....