I started this conversation with my wife and she has made it public so I feel some responsibility to answer your private request for gripes about the Wings program publicly. While I know some of these will make me sound iconoclastic and possibly even Luddite-like, I have reached the natural age of "grumpy old man" and feel no need to apologize.
Here are my specific problems with the new Wings program:
1) It is my understanding that the program was redesigned because of the underutilization by pilots. It seems to me that making it more complicated does not necessarily make it more appealing -- indeed, quite the opposite.
2) It requires Internet access. Some pilots still have dial-up making use of the Internet painful; some do not have access at all. I do not believe the FAA has mandated Internet access for pilots (yet).
3) There is a privacy issue in that you must register and the FAA keeps track of all that info for you. How handy. Trust me to keep my log book honestly. Trust me to keep my Wings honestly. But don't ask me to trust the FAA.
To be more succinct, I don’t want to log into a government site and leave personal data there. If the FAA wants to see my logbook they must ask me for it. You may say that my personal data is safe with the FAA but I may say that my personal data was safe with IBM and they are now paying through the nose because they “lost” some tapes.
4) I have been told by several FAAST team members that there would no longer be any annual pins. It's nice to know there are pins for "phases," whatever those are. My phase is currently set to stun.
5) There is no incentive to learn yet more bureaucratic meanderings of a government agency that seems less and less concerned with safety and promotion than making new rules and changing old ones apparently "because they can" (new IFR currency and 51% rule leap to mind).
6) The old program was nice and relatively unstructured. An hour of landings and hour of stuff and another hour of approaches. It was fun. After one landing to convince a CFI that it was possible to use the airplane again, we could go out and do advanced stuff. I tried to get a different CFI every year. One was a mountain flying expert for CAP, another was an ex-Air Force jock. They all (mostly) had some wonderful thing to teach me that wasn't on any syllabus or PTS. Now I'm stuck with BFRs in which I fly a CFI friend 40 files to lunch and get a signature. Sure it's fun, but it doesn't stretch me and it doesn't teach me anything and it doesn't make me a better or safer pilot. It only makes me a legal pilot.
While you may argue that the more structured requirements will make me better or safer I will argue that those are your rules, your requirements and your assumption on what will make me better. I'm not a professional pilot. I do this for fun and to visit grandchildren. Don't take away my fun.
You may also argue that I can still go out and rent a CFI to "stretch my wings" (as it were). And you would be correct. And I will. But other than my own edification there is, again, no impetus to do so.
7) My wife and I both attend numerous safety meetings and seminars. Most offer Wings credit. We used to just pick up a card. Now we have to scoot through bureaucratic machinations. It just doesn't seem worth the trouble.
And, in a nearly unrelated subject, ALL of the people I have ever met who work for the FAA have been helpful and dedicated and who do good work in an environment that is sometimes fraught with people like me.
I'll try and address your points:
1). Cost-effectiveness was a part of the new program - the old program had low participation and high costs, with postage and printing charges. The new program HAD to eliminate those costs as much as possible, hence:
2). It IS internet based. Participants must have internet access - either their own, or at a library/FBO/work/other. Programs are often given in person, but everything about that seminar is donated, and the only way for people to find out is if they are registered or by word of mouth.
3). The FAA knows so much about you already (residence with history, medical info, driver records, etc) that I don't understand how giving them an e-mail address (and it can be a hotmail/yahoo/other "free" address) is increasing your risk of identity theft.
4). Pins already addressed. Avemco sponsors them. Once you complete a phase, you claim your pin, and it shows up in the mail in a week or so.
5). Not sure how your dislike over the 51% rule relates to WINGS. It
sounds to me like you just dislike the FAA being in a position of authority over you and your flying. I understand that, but I'm not King, so (as you hinted in your final paragraph) I must do the best I can within the rules as they are set.
6). If you did one landing and then did other stuff under the old program, your old CFI lied when he endorsed you doing one hour of takeoffs and landings. The FAA really did expect you to go out and do a full hour of different types of takeoffs and landings, because so many pilots come to grief in the approach and landing. Mixing in short field, single engine, engine out, and other stuff related to the approach and landings would have been ok, but it sounds like you did something else. So I don't think your comparison is valid. There is MORE freedom now to do elective flight training - your CFI can create a flight syllabus for one of the elective credits on pretty much anything he wants, and you can get credit for it. Before, it was fixed at the takeoffs and landings, manuevers, and hood work. You can now also get flight credit for CAP checkrides, type clubs (like the Mooney ASF) proficiency programs, the formation flying training, and other stuff.
7). Under the new Wings program, getting credit for seminars is even easier. If you play within the system and register, and then register for a seminar, you just check your name off on a roster when you attend the meeting, and your credit is issued by the FAASTeam rep giving or supervising the program. You also get notified of upcoming sessions within your area automatically.
I'm sorry that you find wings isn't a good fit for YOU. Participation is voluntary, and I am not trying to convince YOU to change your mind. I
am trying to present an alternative view so that others can make up their own minds.
Best wishes,