Dcat, you are looking for consistently safe, it's ok to strive for perfect, but understand there is always something to mess you up. It's kind of like docking a boat. You line it up perfectly and that gust of wind or boat wake messes you up.
Here is what I learned. (I'm not a CFI, so remember that).
You need to see the runway and where you are height wise, in other words don't drive it into the runway, don't drop it in from 10 feet over the runway.
Hold the centerline on landing, more importantly, keep the airplane aligned longitudinally to the runway, use the rudder for this, sometimes you need to dance. I find that if you land with the nose even slightly pointed away from the direction of travel, your landing will feel like crap. It's not good for the airplane either.
Next, keep that nose up, stay in the flare attitude, don't get impatient, land on the mains first, always. As you slow you need more back pressure. Never try to cheat it onto the runway by releasing pressure, or really bad, putting the nose down. If you bounce, see how high you go, if it's just a few inches, keep the nose up, don't let it drop, reland. If it's more than a slight bounce, go around.
Crosswind, I crab, then sideslip, don't forget to maintain the correction in the flare, don't let it out, in fact if you are a little fast you will probably need to increase the slip as you slow down, remember the rudder as you increase aileron. Keep the controls in after you land.
Everybody has crappy landings, just be safe.