I think most people go through each day just trying to get by; mostly the day is routine - you have a few minor hassles and a few good spots each day - but, at times, there is this Aggravation.
The Aggravation always comes from one place, one cause, one source, and on a regular basis. No Aggravation is quite so keenly distressing in your life.
It is natural and healthy that one would want to avoid or minimize this; it is reasonable that you would want to rid your life of this. (in this case it is more than a selfish goal, continue reading my experience below).
I have been there; I moderated a chat group with a few people who were not only a constant aggravation but they brought down the rest of the group....truly good people were leaving and we were being left with a group of nasty malcontents*. Once I purged them, it was like a huge load was off my life and the chatgroup once again became awesome with a healthy and amicable exchange of forward looking, helpful ideas. Many members thanked me and our numbers soared from 300 to over 800. I learned a little about leadership in that experience.
*as an example of what can happen when there is no leadership, I am also a member of another aviation chatgroup. In this group, the moderators disappeared completely, leaving people to spout whatever they felt they had the right to. ALL the decent people have left, and there are a few hate-filled people remaining is very little talk about the original reason for gathering! (I need to remove that bookmark, keep forgetting to) So, the reasonable people with any decency left and all that remains is a very small forum of people who like to jab at...each other, politicians, any other person or group they can think of. Without strong leadership, a chatgroup/forum can get truly ugly and not at all what was intended.