This reminds of something my wife said to me recently. She'd asked me to please never run for office because she didn't want our family put through all that. I have to agree.
Regardless of party, if you run for a higher ranking office in government they pick apart your entire life. Every little thing you've ever done wrong will be blown up and put in the news and in case you've never really done anything too bad they'll find something to smear you with. We've all got someone we've had trouble with in our lives and the opposition will find those people and and broadcast their bad opinion of you to everyone. They'll scrutinize where and what you eat, your dress, your choice of pet, your means of transportation, how you earn your money, your medical history, and god knows what else. Any possible thing that just might make you look bad and change someone's opinion can and will be used against you. Now they've even got folks harassing politicians and their families out in public.
To actually try to run for one of those offices... and actually subject your family to what I can only imagine is a living nightmare you either have to be one cold calculating power hungry jerk of a person... or driven above and beyond and sort of sanity to achieve. We do this to our elected officials and then we wonder why so many of them turn out to be scumbags or don't seem to really care about the average person. Well, if you consider yourself to be a decent reasoning caring human being would YOU want to be in that position? What sane person who cares about their loved ones would? That's why we get what we get... a bunch of narcissists, nuts, and scumbags and it's our own(collective) fault.